Serena Williams Loses Her Temper, Loses Her Match
by Sarah

If you were watching the U.S. Open you saw Serena Williams come undone.

Who am I trying to kid? If you were watching tennis, or ESPN, or CNN or even your local news you probably saw the clip.

In a sport where decorum rules the courts it is unusual to see a tennis player throw a fit during a match.

I haven't seen an outburst like that during the U.S. Open since John McEnroe played the game.

It was all over a foot fault. A line judge called a foot fault on Serena and pardon my French, but I believe her exact words were "I swear to God I feel like taking this ball and shoving it down your fucking throat."

Then she continued to point and swear right at the judge.

As in any sport, it doesn't go over well when you threaten the referees.

They hate that.

Now, as much as I appreciate a lady with a foul mouth (and I'm not just saying that, I really do) this paroxysm was completely inappropriate.

Here, see for yourself.


I don't mean to suggest that the line judge wasn't making a lot of unnecessary calls against Serena Williams. She may have been, I don't know, I was watching football, but that is not how a person is expected to behave in a professional tennis match.

This isn't major league baseball, and some people were watching the U.S. Open with their children.

I appreciate her passion but it was misplaced here.

The fit was bad, and embarrassing for Ms. Williams, but that isn't the worst of it. She was docked a point. And that point cost her the game.

...while serving at 5-6, 15-30, the line official called a foot fault on
Serena on her second serve, thus awarding Clijsters double match point,
15-40. However, Serena became upset with the call and began jawing at
the official. To her misfortune, she had already been given a warning
earlier in the match; which now combined resulted in a point penalty,
thus costing her the match.

- Black Tennis Pros

That wasn't all it cost her. She was also fined $10,000 for unsportmanlike conduct.

Serena Williams lost in the semi-finals of the U.S. Open because she couldn't control her temper.

Kim Clijsters won the match on a technicality and went on to defeat Caroline Wozniacki in the finals to win the championship.

To be fair Clijsters is an amazing tennis player. Megan says:

Now honestly, she might have lost the match anyway because her opponent
Kim Clijsters was out playing her and was a couple of points from
winning with the score, 4-6, 5-6, 15-30... Bottom line, Clijsters is a great player and doing amazingly well for
someone who was off having a baby the last three years.  She was
beating Serena on every level and though Serena may have pulled it out
in three, God knows she's done it before, you do the crime, you do the
time.

- Megan's Minute

So maybe Serena would not have advanced, but it stinks to see someone lose that way.

Some people have suggested that it might have been 'roid rage or even PMS. In my opinion Serena Williams is just a fierce competitor. She wasn't playing her best, it looked like she was about to be defeated and she was angry about it. It happens.

Ms. Williams issued a formal statement explaining, if not exactly apologizing for, her behavior during the semi-final match. She is still scheduled to play in the doubles finals with her sister, Venus.

 

Contributing Editor Sarah also blogs at Sarah and the Goon Squad and MamaPop.

 

 

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Serena's temper tantrum

cost her a championship and I hope she learned her lesson.  That whole situation looked ugly.  She could have still won if she hadn't let loose like that.  (My blogs are http://flightkeeper.blogspot.com and http://cutefuncool.blogspot.com)

 

Serena Apologizes on Twitter

Just to follow up, Serena apologized on Twitter--where else?--a few minutes ago, and a more full length message on her website.

Megan
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Remember

Remember when only nerdy bloggers were on twitter?

Now it is the place for brief press releases.

 

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It's Something, Ain't It?

I'm also sure it's no coincidence that she's an hour away from taking the court with Venus to play the women's doubles final.  Timing and Twitter:  a winning combination.

Megan
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UGH on PMS

I hate when women's emotions are blamed on PMS. It is demeaning and ridiculous. John McEnroe did this sort of thing constantly. It received penalties and headlines but it seems that there is more scrutiny on Serena for this...just because "ladies don't act like that." growl.

 

~TW

 

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I've Been Saying That To People All Weekend

Serena was wrong, dead wrong.

But excuse me, anybody hear of John McEnroe, Jimmy Connors, Lleyton Hewitt, and even the revered tennis, elderstatesman now, Andre Agassi?

All these guys have acted just as bad on court and much more often throughout there careers.  Let's just keep our perspective here.

 

Megan
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The PMS line is just wrong,

The PMS line is just wrong, but I'm also not really happy with the comparisons with John Mc, Jimmy C, Lleyton  Hewitt, etc., as if we should just somehow overlook Serena's appalling behavior.  I saw lots of tirades by John McEnroe which made me cringe, think he should be fined, etc.  (On more than one occasion, he was fined.)  But I honestly do not recall ever seeing him act at all as threatening as Serena did on Saturday.  There is a difference between throwing a major temper tantrum with yelling and berating and cussing and the physically threatening behavior Serena exhibited.  To the extent that any tennis player ever took a beef to a line judge in that manner, I would consistently say the behavior should receive a default, a fine, and a suspension.  Jimmy C. did behave in a similar fashion once at Lipton in 1986.  For that, he was fined $20,000 and suspended from the tour for 10 weeks.  He was also defaulted from the match he was playing, and not just because it happened to be match point anyway. 


Preaching to the Choir

 

No One Should "Overlook" Her Behavior

No one, and I do mean no one, should "overlook" Serena's behavior.  She was totally in the wrong and deserves whatever penalties tennis dishes out.  Having said that, I agree with what Filip Bondy said in today's New York Daily News:

Jimmy Connors wagged his finger with violent intent in the face of many officials. Long after he had reformed his image, in 2001, Andre Agassi whacked a 120mph serve at a Wimbledon lineswoman during a semifinal match and questioned her sex life. And let's not even get started with John McEnroe, Ilie Nastase or Jeff Tarango.

And those guys did that kind of stuff, all the time.  Not just once in a ten year career. 

Megan
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I agree those guys all did

I agree those guys all did bad things.  Having seen most of those guys in their moments, my gut reaction as a tennis fan is that Serena's display was the worst one I've ever seen.  I am not singling her out because she's the woman; my view is simply that she was more threatening than I have ever seen.  Except, perhaps, for the Agassi ball thing.  And I still think Agassi got off way too light for that.  But Agassi getting off to light for that is no reason to let Serena off lightly, either.  Were I Potentate of the US Open, she would not have played doubles today. 

As I said, Jimmy Connors was suspended.  Jeff Tarango (and how glad am I that someone else remembers that crazy?) got defaulted at least once.  John McEnroe was fined on multiple occasions.  I never rooted for any of those guys and hated the way they brought shame on themselves with their on-court behavior.  And this was not the first incident in Serena's career.  It was just by far the worst.

I guess I just object to the idea that we're somehow blowing this one out of proportion. 

 

Preaching to the Choir

 

We'll Have To Agree to Disagree

I suppose we'll have to agree to disagree, but that's okay 'cause if you're a tennis fan, you're fine by me.

Megan
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I feel exactly the same way

It makes me nuts too, and I am medicated for PMDD. It just seems somehow belittling.

 

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Great post

Great post Sarah - and thanks for the updates Megan.  Indeed Twitter + Timing = Sweet Spot.

She was totally wrong for losing her cool and saying something to the judge.  Would've been better off randomly swearing at no one (haven't we all done that!).  Yet it does seem interesting how McEnroe could go postal in every match and it was a-ok in some ways as part of his persona.

Of course in the end.. as Serena said herself, we all learn from our not so proud moments and mistakes.  Let's hope this lesson benefits her going forward..

 

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Lots of this going around this week

Joe Wilson, Serena Williams, Kanye West... you know, I'm really not down with this "behave badly now, apologize later" stuff.  Not saying people aren't entitled to their opinions or freedom of speech, but there's a time and a place for it.  And it's not during a POTUS speech before a joint session, or during someone's award show acceptance speech or in the middle of the US Open.  I'm starting to think people are doing it on purpose.

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Kanye West has no manners.

His situations is different altogether.  I don't know if he was high, drunk, or what but his behavior was disgusting. Even if you thought Beyonce had the better video, he shouldn't have gone up there to humiliate Taylor Swift, who was the rightful winner.


I'm with you, I'm sick of people who probably ran off their mothers by their poor behavior and were then raised by pigs.


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Agreed, Kanye exhibited poor manners

Serena Williams lost her temper. What Kanye did was terrible manners and completely out of line. He had no business on that stage at all and interrupting Taylor Swift's acceptance speech just to say that someone else was better than her was a real dick move.

That being said, now her speech and name will live on in trivia games for years.

 

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she was just featured in a

she was just featured in a PEOPLE magazine article a couple weeks back about how grown-up she is, etc.


 


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They call that irony

Not that we don't all have tantrums. I just try to have mine in private.

I guess it really helps that I work form home.

 

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