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Seriously, How Much Sleep Do You Get?

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Last week was full of compliments:

"Are you wearing different makeup? I like it!" a colleague said.

"Your skin's got this glow, what are you doing to it?" asked a friend.

"Looking good, honey!" said my husband when we went out Saturday night.

Thing is, I hadn't tried new makeup, gotten a facial, taken a vacation or given away my children. What I had done? For the first time in months, I'd gotten eight hours of sleep several nights in a row. It was absolutely, positively depressing: this realization that I actually looked better with sleep. Who has the time for such luxuries?

I average about six and a half hours of sleep a night, seven if I'm lucky. I'm not alone in my ZZZ-deprived life; most women I know similarly skimp on shuteye. Griping about lack of sleep is one thing we love to do when we hang out (although Cle de Peau concealer is my true BFF).

Last week, The National Sleep Foundation came out with its annual poll; 43 percent of Americans age 13 to 64 say they rarely or never get a good night's sleep on weeknights.

The poll also found that Americans cope with sleeplessness with — gasp — caffeine (three 12-ounce leaded beverages a day, on average) and naps.

Who the hell are these napping people, anyway? And where's the app for naps?

The poll did not explore the following sleep hazards:

  • Being a mother
  • Co-sleeping with a child who tosses and turns like he's in a Shake and Bake commercial
  • YouTube, Damn You Auto Correct and all the other ways the web keeps me World Wide Awake at night
  • Being a mother

To cause myself further distress, I asked a dermatologist friend — Michael Ehrenreich, M.D., Medical Director of SOMA Skin & Laser in Millburn, N.J. — just why lack of sleep makes you look so crappy. He mentioned less glow (people who are chronically sleep-deprived have decreased lipid production, so their skin may lack luster). Also, because tiredness makes muscle tone go slack, eyes appear smaller and brows appear lower — and dark circles under the eyes are accentuated due to puffiness.

Sleeping Woman

Lovely.

"Sleep is the most economical alternative to Botox," Dr. Ehrenreich told me.

Problem is, I can't afford to sleep.

Photo Credit: @RussianLook/ZUMAPRESS

How about you: About how much sleep do you get?

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zara world 5 pts

I fell you radiation of self worth and glow.
For years i been getting only 4hours sleep (work, kids, business and life) but the last few days i had over 8hours a day. But must admit the first day i had 8hours i felt rough the next day as my body was not use to it. After that i was glowing and smiling alot more.

So maybe thats how you felt without knowing it.

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beaubeau 5 pts

My mothering days are long gone. Still, I get very little sleep, max 6 hrs per night. The fact has often given me anxiety due to all the stories out there about the ways in which sleep deprivation can contribute to risks of long-term chronic illnesses. But then I read about another study that found a genetic explanation for why some people simply need less sleep. I think I'm one of them. And if it's just the way I'm genetically configured, then that's one genetic marker I'm okay with. After all, I feel awake and energized while my husband needs almost twice as much sleep just to keep up.

Enjoy those sleepless nights with your little one while you can. Far more valuable than a perky face.

midnightbliss 5 pts

my average sleep is only 5hrs and an hour nap, 6 hours total but no matter how i try, its still the same, if i try to sleep early, i will also wake up early. if i sleep late, i'd wake up, the same time i always wake up.

LoveThatMax 5 pts

...is that I'm writing this at 1:15 a.m. Melissa and Ellen, we could do a conference call!

And bibliophile21, you are so right, I did not mean to infer that life is less busy for those of us who do not have kids. How quickly I forget. I blame the sleep deprivation.

Ellen blogs daily at Love That Max ( http://lovethatmax.com ), a blog about kids with special needs who kick butt

EllenBailey 5 pts

In addition to all the reasons cited above I'm suffering from an insomnia that wakes me at about 4 am and won't allow me to go back to sleep. Ugh!

Thanks for posting. I enjoyed reading this.

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Well... this was a bad day to answer the question because for the last two nights, I've gotten three hours total each night. Usually, I go to bed at midnight and get up at 7, BUT it takes me a long time to fall asleep at midnight. Or to stay asleep through the night.

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TheBlackTortoise 5 pts

I get up early. Get going, and vow to take a nap. I climb into bed, wired from working into the evening. Then fail to fall asleep. Repeat.

The sad thing is, my kids are grown and I work from home.

Adela

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allierambles 5 pts

I have always loved sleep. And have been fortunate enough to be a good sleeper. I need sleep like I need to eat. I am in bed by 9:30 every night and wake up at 5 AM every morning. That is 7 1/2 hours!
I consider myself very lucky but I do make sleep a priority. Always have.
I feel bad for people who have trouble sleeping, my husband being one. I guess his mind doesn't turn off. ???

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mamarant 5 pts

Between seasonal colds, traveling and back issues, I rarely get enough sleep. And boy are there days where I look it. Thank goodness for undereye concealer.

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Barbie2365 5 pts

I average about 6 hours of sleep. My children are older, but every now and then the youngest, who is 7, ends up in our room and then the back and forth begins. Not to mention I am often up late doing laundry or catching up on emails so I don't go to bed when I should.

carrieactually 5 pts

i pretty regularly get 9 hours of sleep. i'm a total grouch on less than 8 hours so you'll regularly find me in bed before 10pm.

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bibliophile21 5 pts

There are plenty of reasons for non-mothers to get less amounts of sleep too- juggling work & school (or even just one of those depending on the load). Life is busy for everyone, not just mommies.

cindy_g 5 pts

Sleep and lack of it is a frequent topic of conversation in our household. I would say I get 6 hours/night. I need more, but have so much going on that it's hard to get to bed earlier most nights. I know that it's needed for my health but getting sleep (and good sleep at that) is difficult.
I am definitely going to share the "Sleep is the most economical alternative to Botox," statement with my husband. We cry over our new lines and lack of youthful glow together :)