My Husband Only Wants Sex Once a Week and I Want More

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The Time Two Guys Tried to Switch During Sex

 A friend of mine told me a horrifying story last week that put many of my bad dates to shame. Every time I thought my jaw couldn’t drop any further, a new detail shocked me again.Back in freshman year of college, Ellie, a really pretty, petite girl, had her eye on a hot junior, John, who lived down the hall in her co-ed dorm. The two started making out at a party in his room, and before she knew it, everyone was gone and it was just the two of them. Things got hot and heavy, and they ended up naked on his bed with the lights off. That’s when he got up to get a condom.When he got back on top of her with the condom, she opened her eyes to a terrifying sight — the naked guy sitting on her WAS NOT JOHN. ...more
tpexiaojie I agree with you! Except my ass would have been out of there the first time! I would ...more

Does there have to be a spark??

Let’s talk about sex.  So mom, if you are reading this, please stop right here and click the little “x” on the upper right part of your screen.   ...more

Please Don’t Hug or Kiss Me at Work – Version 2, Sexual Harassment

Here’s a longer, more complete version of the subject of yesterday’s blog post – unwanted hugging and kissing in the workplace. In the context of a series of similar incidents detailed below, the stories I related yesterday seem to take on a different light.—...more

Sex, Media & Feminism - My Open Letter to Beyonce

Dear Bey, I jumped off your bandwagon. Before any of your bees come a stingin' in reply to my post, hear me out. I was sorta cool with the whole, "I transform into another person, and this other being comes out of me and I named her Sasha Fierce". I defended you against all the "Illuminati" drama that surrounded you after watching your documentary and seeing how many times you attributed your success to God. Now though, it's just not worth it to me. ...more

Spa Day!

Yes, I know, I gave you two endings. I just wanted to know which one you like or are they just the same? It’s been a rough few weeks, and it is time to pick up my spirit. You see Mr. Hollywood took back the car, leaving me with nothing but my brother’s old piece of a car to sell toys out of.Now I’m off to the spa. See what happened was…Nikki, a dear old friend from out of town, blew in and insisted that we head off for a day at the spa. I told her everything about Mr. Hollywood, how we met, the trip to California and how he threatens me with a lawsuit if I said anything....more

Sex After Menopause

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4 Red Flags to Never Ignore in a Potential Partner

Dating can be a stressful process, especially if you’re looking for something long term. In the beginning your time is spent getting to know your potential partner....more

"I'm Talking to Someone"- What Does that Mean?

I think its safe to say today’s dating world is more complex than ever. Despite the countless means of communication available at our fingertips, it seems that communication is at an all time low. Every day there seem to be new terms and phrases created around relationships, dating, and sex, yet there is little to no clarification of what they actually mean. This is complicated for people like myself because I believe that dating should be very simple. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy, they get together, etc....more

Were You Sexually Assaulted? I Believe You

I believe you. Even though your face isn’t bruised, even though your bones aren’t broken. Even though it’s been days or weeks since it happened. Even if, at some point in your life, you thought you loved him, or you really did love him. This time, you said no. Maybe you were still together; maybe you were broken up, or breaking up. It doesn’t matter what you wore or what you drank. You said no. More than once. ...more