May Is National Masturbation Month!

Happy Masturbation Month!     May is Masturbation Month, a time for all of us as adults to get to know ourselves better. It is a also a time to defrost from the stigma of touching ourselves.  It is a time to get to know what we like and perhaps even figure out why we like it. It is a time for us to stand up, lie down, turn sideways and get sexy with ourselves....more
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THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

May we all enhance the love in our lives by focusing on the connection to the one we love. Inspiritual: A space for spiritual evolution and transformation...more

Free Book Giveaway on Amazon!

Polyamourous, kinky, sex-positive author promoting an alternative to monogamous, vanilla living.My book "Polyamory and BDSM, Discoving Love, Sex, Vulnerability and Radical Honesty" is out on Amazon worldwide and it is available to download for free tomorrow, May 1st, for 24 hours! Available here: Amazon...more

No, thanks. I'll just lick it myself.

A question about undressing

That's not exactly what I meant by a boob job, honey

I was reading Dan Savage's advice column the other day. Savage, if you haven't heard of him, gives advice on all things sexual, and even lots of things I wouldn't consider sexy, but somebody does. It's not for the naive. Or maybe it is if you need to get up to speed....more
Dolores Derrian It's certainly a complex issue. What I gleaned from the letter is that he's more ...more

Rape Fantasies After a Sexual Assault?!

I was 17. It was summer -  I remember the sound of the cicadas. I remember a feeling of desperate panic, and a very sudden realization that there was absolutely nothing I could do.His penis didn't enter my vagina, so it wasn't called rape.  It was called an "unfortunate situation", and a few people whispered about underage drinking and its unintended consequences....more
pddotnet EXACTLY! I felt so... wrong. Ashamed. How could I really have been traumatized if I had ...more

Milk and Nookie: Breastfeeding and Sex

You might not be enjoying breastfeeding because you and your partner aren’t connecting. Perhaps one or both of you think that is because of breastfeeding.I wanted this blog post to be about your partner. I want to give you some really deep insights about how your partner’s support or lack of support can really affect your level of breastfeeding enjoyment.But, I can’t.  Why? Because I don’t know anything about daddies.  I talk to mamas all the time about their feelings, their struggles, and their fears. I feel like I get you ladies....more

What Is Porn Teaching Us About Desire and Consent?

Anal sex.  Everybody's doing it... or so the internet would have us believe. In today's money shot culture, images of women being bent over have become commonplace....more
I have a feeling this answer isn't going to be popular, but part of the problem you're ...more

Why People Cheat... and Sneaky Ways They Get Away With It

Recently I was surprised to read an article in the Wall Street Journal on cheating. The article "Are You Likely to Have an Affair?" found that you're more likely to cheat if: your in the year before a milestone birthday (interesting, but sad), you have relationship dissatisfaction (still not right), you have opportunity to cheat (opportunity is enough?), and more....more