8 Things You Should Know About Building Intimacy In Your Relationship

It’s July 1st and the first official day of the Summer Sex Challenge! And no one is more excited about today...more

Teens with weak working memory more likely to engage in risky sex

A new study from the University of Oregon, the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia and the University of Pennsylvania found that there's a link between impulse control and cognitive abilities. More specifically, the test found that teens with weak working memory skills are more likely to to have impulsive tendencies in early to mid-adolescence. It's not exactly the best time to have weak impulse control - especially with peer pressure, raging hormones, a desire to be popular, etc....more

So, Would You Date a Bisexual Guy?

Editor's Note: This piece was first published in April, 2009. I enjoyed the discussion of sexual fluidity and gender identity. For Pride Month, I want to feature more BlogHer posts that discuss queer identities when it comes to dating, love, and sex. - Feminista Jones For someone like me, living in oh so open-minded Northern California, the tabloid press stories about celebrities’ sex lives are kinda puzzling. Every week, there’s a story outing some star’s sexual life:“Gavin Rossdale’s ex-girlfriend is a man!”...more
violetta That is a ridiculously ignorant statement to make.  HIV/AIDS are not exclusive to the ...more

3 Reasons to Not "Give Your Husband More Sex"

I saw a graphic on Pinterest recently titled "8 Reasons to Give Your Husband More Sex.” In it, the author discussed the ways that sex benefits women, including improved health, reduced stress, and a stronger marriage, and made the case that regular sex in marriage is good for wives.  I don't disagree with that.  As a matter of fact, I strongly agree with it.  Despite that, the graphic really bothered me.  And it still bothers me whenever I think about it....more
MelanieMorris That's exactly the way it should be!more

Let's Get Real About Date Rape

I think I've told a total of 3 people in my lifetime about my experience with date-rape. It took me years after the fact to even acknowledge out loud that I had been a victim of it....more
"The guy who I was dating, who was passed out in the living room, would likely have gotten ...more

Why the FDA Needs to Approve 'Female Viagra'

It’s been 17 years since Viagra—the “little blue pill” to boost men’s sexual function—was approved by the FDA. Since 1998, men have had the privilege of using Viagra to improve their sex lives....more
It is interesting to me, as a natural health practitioner, that you sought the help of doctors ...more

May Is National Masturbation Month!

Happy Masturbation Month!     May is Masturbation Month, a time for all of us as adults to get to know ourselves better. It is a also a time to defrost from the stigma of touching ourselves.  It is a time to get to know what we like and perhaps even figure out why we like it. It is a time for us to stand up, lie down, turn sideways and get sexy with ourselves....more


May we all enhance the love in our lives by focusing on the connection to the one we love. Inspiritual: A space for spiritual evolution and transformation...more

Free Book Giveaway on Amazon!

Polyamourous, kinky, sex-positive author promoting an alternative to monogamous, vanilla living.My book "Polyamory and BDSM, Discoving Love, Sex, Vulnerability and Radical Honesty" is out on Amazon worldwide and it is available to download for free tomorrow, May 1st, for 24 hours! Available here: Amazon...more

No, thanks. I'll just lick it myself.