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"Sex and the City" The Movie? Oh, All Right

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A few weeks ago I boasted about how I wasn't going to be strutting my stilettos over to see the new "Sex and the City" movie. Then a few weeks later my summer movie preview post included the following quote under the heading "Movies I Would See To Please A Good Friend:

My good friend Kay talked me into almost seeing it on opening weekend. The only reason we didn't is because all the shows were sold out until 1am. I know I won't escape next time so I might as well slip on my Jimmy Choos and get ready.

Well Kay and I saw the "Sex and the City" movie last weekend, and no, we weren't the final two women in the world who hadn't seen it. There were plenty of women in the audience---and a sprinkling of men---so many in fact, we had to sit in the second row of the theatre in order to sit together.

If you've never watched a movie from the second row, you've missed one of the more memorable movie going experiences.  Let's just say Mr. Big wasn't just a nickname anymore.  That'll teach Kay and I to go for our Starbucks' fix ten minutes before showtime. 

As for the movie itself?  I found it moderately entertaining.  Too long at two hours and fifteen minutes, but moderately entertaining.  At what seemed the movie's three quarter mark, it suddenly occurred to me that Jennifer Hudson was supposed to be in the movie. She showed up ten minutes later, but not before Kay asked me in frustration what time it was and how long the movie was supposed to be.

All the usual elements of a "Sex and the City" episode were there: Carrie's funky fashions, Samantha's explosive libido, Charlotte's sunny disposition and Miranda's holier than thou attitude. 

***Warning Will Robinson, spoilers up ahead!***

The several plot threads revolved around all the characters we've come to know:  Big and Carrie (Sarah Jessica Parker) and whether or not they'd get married; Miranda and Steve and how they'd handle his infidelity; Samantha and Jerry and how she could maintain a monogamous relationship while still satisfying her sex drive; Charlotte and Harry and how many cute scenes they could have with their adorable daughter Lily.

Thankfully all the women were more grown up than in the the TV show and Carrie benefited the most from that much needed maturity.  For example, instead of being the doormat I expected her to be after Big leaves her at the altar, she beats him up with her wedding bouquet and kicks him and his custom made walk in closet to the curb.

Miranda fared the worst in the maturity stakes.  She'd turned into a Blackberry addicted, over-scheduled, work-a-holic whose marriage to an easygoing "average guy" was crashing under the weight of her rigid expectations and her surly disposition.

The things I didn't like about the TV show, I didn't like about the movie.  Big is not my idea of the ideal man, but Chris Noth at least gave him a bit more depth in the movie than we ever saw in the TV show.  I never believed Charlotte and Harry as a couple and watching them have sex was kind of like watching your parents have sex:  something you knew took place but that you never, ever wanted to see. 

The highlight of the movie was Dante, the object of Samantha's ogling desire and a joy to behold.  He had the luscious body of an Adonis and Samantha wasn't the only one wanting a piece of his action.  

And though it may sound like I'm totally down on the movie, I'm really not.  Any movie that deals with real world, modern day, mature women---and I don't mean mature in age, I mean temperament---I'm okay with it.  If they write more roles for minority women, I'll be even more okay with it.

More "Sex and the City Posts:"

Fellow BlogHer Contributing Editor Liz Rizzo liked the movie and says, "It's Not All About The Shoes."

Fellow BlogHer Contributing Editor Trisha Okubo has a roundup of fashion blogs that show you how to get the "Sex and the City" style, and all kinds of style, on a budget.

MelSil's post examines "Sex and the City" and feminism.

Kat at Love Me, Hate Me has been inspired to watch reruns of the TV show after having seen the movie.

Megan Smith is a BlogHer Contributing

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Megan Smith 5 pts

Hi Allison,

Congratulations on your first comment on any blog, anywhere, ever!  Was it good for you?  I hope so.  And I do feel honored that you chose my post to comment on, no matter why you chose it.

I agree with you that "Sex and the City" is kind of like a modern day fairytale for a lot of women.  As I mentioned, I like the female bonding, friendship aspects of the show and the movie, and I think it's great that a lot of women have used the movie to connect with their own friends.

Anything that can do that truly has a touch of magic to it.

Megan
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allibelle 5 pts

I want you to know that I am a "BlogVirgin" and this is my very first comment on any Blog ...anywhere.  Do I think it an honor for you to receive it? No. Quite the contrary.  I thank you for allowing me the opportunity to comment on the early summer runaway topic for most women.  Sex in the City. Wow.  Just think that even 20 years ago the title for a show, movie or even a book would not exist unless it was well hidden on the shelf of a doctor or educator's office.  The mere fact that we have talked over and over about it.... all women on all levels is amazing to me.  I marvel sitting in a theater in Charlotte, NC as the women fill the seats - all ages - waiting for the magic.  They came in droves, gathered with their friends in their "coolest" outfits and "best shoes."  I love Charlotte. I was born there but heaven help me.... can you see all of us belles trying to fake our way through NY sophistication to watch a movie?  I felt like we were a bunch of little girls in our Disney costumes waiting for the newest Disney movie to come out.  There we sat "Belle", "Ariel", "Cinderella" and "Jasmine" all dressed up, waiting for the next fairytale to begin.  Sex and the City is our fairytale. Sure the plot was thin and acting simple.  But for those 2 hours we were taken away.  Some of us could never imagine such clothes, dining, money and, of course, sex, yet others of us could. (Yes, I lived in Manhattan for 7 years, am 41 and still single never married and I completely identify on so many levels with all 4 characters.) But the magic is not really what we see on the screen.  The magic is what really transpires in the theater and over coffee after the movie, the conversations that will take place days later and even now here on this blog with your new BlogVirgin. 

So, I close my very first (of what I hope is many) Blog comment on something that is magical to me.  Sex and the City is merely the common day fairytale to women of all ages and types who can experience a moment with friends and walk away gleaming just like a little girl dressed as Cinderella as she leaves the Magic Kingdom after a long day she'll never forget.

Megan Smith 5 pts

Hi Cynthia,

I also can be a big sucker for a happy ending, it's just I never emotionally connected to any of these particular women for me to care that much.

I agree with what you said in your review about Samantha's birthday, that was especially touching. And I was more drawn to the characters in the movie than I was the TV show. Just not enough.

Megan
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Csamuels 5 pts

 Megan,

I liked it better than you did, I think.  Mostly, it's because I'm such a happy ending sucker and because of the sisterhood of the four.  Women's friendships are like nothing else.  Just ask a guy who admits to the envy so many of them feel for how much easier it is for us.

Here's my review:   http://dontgelyet.typepad.com/dontgeltoosoon/2008/...

Glad to have a chance to talk about it here at "home." 

Cynthia Samuels, Partner
Cobblestone Associates, LLP
Blog and Media Strategies and Content Development Online and on Television

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