If He’s Dumb Enough to Walk Away, Be Smart Enough to Let Him Go

I saw this photo of a quote on Facebook this morning, “If he’s dumb enough to walk away, be smart enough to let him go.” I shared it without adding any extra comments. Will Bartender Boy see it? Maybe, maybe not....more
Smart advise!!   I like the way you think.  I have worked on keeping my emotions intact by ...more

Best Friend Break Ups: They're Hard to Do

Ten years ago, my best friend dumped me.  Can I face her at my  30th High School reunion?...more

Breaking it Down

Everyone wants to know “when” and “why.” When did you stop writing your blog? What happened? Why?This is where I answer, when. And why....more

Why Does It All Come Down to Football?

I know what you guys are thinking. Here's another woman complaining about losing her significant other to football. NOPE. I love football. When I first met my ex-fiance, who shall now be referred to as "Jex," He told me I'd be a football widow when UT played. I said no way, buddy, I'll be going with you, even if I went to Tech. Now, I never was interested in Tech and didn't even like the school much. Changing to a more interesting team seemed like a good idea. It was. I got so into it I was more Longhorn than Jex. Last game, I think I teared up a bit because it was ending....more

Dear Dr. Romance: Why Is My Ex Still Calling Me?

Dear Dr. Romance:I was dating this guy for about two years. During the time that we were together we had some good times and bad. For one he was cheating on me with another girl then we got back together. During that time we worked hard to make the relationship work then I found out that he was sleeping with someone else. When I found this out, I finally left him alone....more

Dear Dr. Romance: Why Do I Not Care That My Girlfriend Broke Up with Me?

Dear Dr. Romance: This girl wasn't really my girlfriend but we pretty much were dating. I was thinking of asking her out in a few days. We talked today and she said she would rather be friends. I thought I should be mad or sad but the weird thing is I don't really care. Why? Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me? Please help! Thanks Dear Reader: It sounds like you two just weren't that great a match, and you didn't have a chance to bond. It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you....more

Vanishing Act

Suddenly I’ve become a part of your past. I’m becoming the part that don’t last. I’m losing you, and it’s effortless. - The Fray I’ve always been bad at goodbyes. I was known for slipping out of parties unannounced, after pretending I was going to the bathroom. I’d text once I got home with an excuse for my rudeness. “Catch you next time!” ...more

Dear Ray,

I just tried to do a video blog of a letter to Ray my ex but I couldn't do it I started crying damn why do I love him so much so I'll do it as a written: Dear Ray, ...more

Sisterly Advice: Do you Have a Hovering Ex? Time to shoo them away.

{Hi Ladies - From all the emails I've gotten on this subject lately, thought this could help ♥}Hovering Exes are normally someone who breaks up with you, but won't make a clean break entirely (still texts, explains his constant presence by saying "your friends" (YUCK), posts on your wall, you know the drill...)...more

My iPhone:An Homage to My Failed Relationships

Several months ago when I first started dating The Bad Boy, he got fed up with the Needtobreathe, David Gray, Ray LaMontagne mix that is forever playing in my car. He clicked through, settling on Atreyu and said "you can't complain, it's in your ipod, you liked it at one point in your life." I laughed as he continued to click through and when he hit Metallica he gave me that you got to be kidding me look. I explained it was left over from the days of Matt and that I never took it out. He laughed and it was dropped. ...more