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He Cheated -- Now What?

Photo by Alice Popkorn (Flickr)

They were together over 20 years when he confessed his infidelity. The other woman was carrying his child and she was putting pressure on him to leave his wife. This is how their marriage survived.  Read more >

When Your Fantasy Doesn't Include Your Husband

emilie esders (Flickr)

Strip away the expectations you have that marriage is supposed to be one long first date. Your husband doesn't bring you flowers? When is the last time you made him a steak (without complaining) in a negligee? If you want to eat a whole pizza then you need to run around the park. If you want a sexy marriage, you need to work on it. Sweetness begets sweetness.  Read more >

Playing With Fire: When You're the One Who's Tempted

Holding Her Hand by Mr. Thomas (Flickr)

Many of us are unprepared to deny biology's drive after marriage. We see it as a weakness, a gross manifestation of our lack of faith and inner strength. We suffer this almost inevitable shame to eventually -- given enough shame and public penance -- be told it happens to good people and assured we can get through it if we find our path again and work together as a couple. There is no prevention where infidelity is concerned, only damage control. How do marriages survive?  Read more >