Love....Bah Humbug!

 I realized that I've spent the last year or so in a state of virtual nonexistence. To be perfectly honest, I can without hesitation say that the individual formerly known as Gina is no longer on this earth....more

Men101

I'm your typical bachelor......Good looking, well built with light eyes, intelligent, and capable of talking a cat off a fish truck...Nevertheless, the intention of this blog is not to come off as an arrogant prick...Rather, to provide insight for women as to why men do, act, think, say and erect the way they do....I feel my past experiences, whether a relationship, my interfering in one, or just plain whoring around serve as proper credentials to feed the curiosity that torments women across the world on a minute-to-minute basis during their conquest to discovering "The One"... ...more

A Note From the Other Woman

I'm taking  your husband - for now.He tells me he loves me.  I'm no niave teenager seeking his approval.  He can't help but think that he loves me.  I do all the nasty things you can't bring yourself to do - and I love doing them.  All men fall in love with that for a while....more

Does He Treat You Like You Matter?

I've noticed that women seek attention but aren't really getting any in their relationships, be it personal, professional, parental or romantic. We want to be heard, to be touched, to have someone notice our little quirks but we can't outright ASK for it. Why is that??...more

First off, Welcome to Blog Her!  I'm still a newbie myself, feeling my way around.  ...more

Straightening Out Lifestyle Misconceptions

Recently, comments on a forum I'm a member of got me to thinking about my own participation and views on being an active member of the "lifestyle" (swinging, as most people think of it).  I'm amazed that even after all this time and all the informational pieces that are out there for people to educate themselves on exactly what is entailed in the participation of an alternative sexual lifestyle that people still tend to think of it as a "throw your car keys into a bowl and have at it" kind of situation....more

The Skin-tight Bin Liner Dress....

Regular readers will know it’s not easy being the better known, more glamorous half of the only lesbian couple ever to have inhabited a small, remote village in the heart of the Welsh Valleys. It would, I admit, be much easier if we weren’t quite so up-front about it; I wouldn’t otherwise be seen *dead* wearing a Katie Melua t-shirt were it not for the *soundest* of ideological sexual libertarian motives. ...more

Nudists & crazy ants: a potent Southern combo

I love the South, don’t get me wrong. And a few of us even managed to vote for Obama this last time round. Nevertheless, “Tennessee” and “Nudist Colony” have not been terms I would have connected, heretofore. ...more

Sex 2.0, v2 - success!

If you follow my tweets, you already know that Sex 2.0 was a blast. I'm going to do a proper recap post as soon as I get a free minute or thirty. In the meantime, here are some photos: ...more

Seeking Love: To Sleep with Him or Not to Sleep with Him

We are social animals, so it is natural for us to want to feel physical comfort with one ...more