"The Freebie" and Its Bizarre Self-Help-for-Swingers Web Site

Don't tell the pope, but today -- Friday, September 17 -- is (unofficially) National Freebie Day. The producers of the new film The Freebie -- about a long-married couple who decide to give each other a free pass so that they can each have a fling with someone else -- would like to give married folk everywhere permission to tuck a condom in their pocket and go hit the bars in search of whatever it is they don't have at home. ...more

There may be something to it.. Getting some strange as it were is sex you can't get with your ...more

Need an answered prayer?

JMJ Do you have a prayer request? A special need?  Well, I spent all night placing a live webcam to Lourdes, France on my website, including a little mailbox to their prayer request email.  All kinds of weird computer problems kept cropping up, and I kept offering them up as a prayer, which did help to keep me from being annoyed.  Then... This morning I got an email from a friend who told me that today is OUR LADY OF LOURDES FEAST DAY!  Wow.  I had no idea!  That is just so cool... ...more

Please Help Tell the Story of Our Sex Lives

Many of us remember the day we first ran across Our Bodies, Ourselves, as something of a revelation; perhaps you even picked up the more recent edition of the same book focused on menopause. But have you wished your voice was in there too?...more

Love....Bah Humbug!

 I realized that I've spent the last year or so in a state of virtual nonexistence. To be perfectly honest, I can without hesitation say that the individual formerly known as Gina is no longer on this earth....more


I'm your typical bachelor......Good looking, well built with light eyes, intelligent, and capable of talking a cat off a fish truck...Nevertheless, the intention of this blog is not to come off as an arrogant prick...Rather, to provide insight for women as to why men do, act, think, say and erect the way they do....I feel my past experiences, whether a relationship, my interfering in one, or just plain whoring around serve as proper credentials to feed the curiosity that torments women across the world on a minute-to-minute basis during their conquest to discovering "The One"... ...more

A Note From the Other Woman

I'm taking  your husband - for now.He tells me he loves me.  I'm no niave teenager seeking his approval.  He can't help but think that he loves me.  I do all the nasty things you can't bring yourself to do - and I love doing them.  All men fall in love with that for a while....more

Does He Treat You Like You Matter?

I've noticed that women seek attention but aren't really getting any in their relationships, be it personal, professional, parental or romantic. We want to be heard, to be touched, to have someone notice our little quirks but we can't outright ASK for it. Why is that??...more

First off, Welcome to Blog Her!  I'm still a newbie myself, feeling my way around.  ...more

Straightening Out Lifestyle Misconceptions

Recently, comments on a forum I'm a member of got me to thinking about my own participation and views on being an active member of the "lifestyle" (swinging, as most people think of it).  I'm amazed that even after all this time and all the informational pieces that are out there for people to educate themselves on exactly what is entailed in the participation of an alternative sexual lifestyle that people still tend to think of it as a "throw your car keys into a bowl and have at it" kind of situation....more

The Skin-tight Bin Liner Dress....

Regular readers will know it’s not easy being the better known, more glamorous half of the only lesbian couple ever to have inhabited a small, remote village in the heart of the Welsh Valleys. It would, I admit, be much easier if we weren’t quite so up-front about it; I wouldn’t otherwise be seen *dead* wearing a Katie Melua t-shirt were it not for the *soundest* of ideological sexual libertarian motives. ...more

Nudists & crazy ants: a potent Southern combo

I love the South, don’t get me wrong. And a few of us even managed to vote for Obama this last time round. Nevertheless, “Tennessee” and “Nudist Colony” have not been terms I would have connected, heretofore. ...more