"Instinct is the nose of the mind." - Delphine Gay de Girardin

For the record, I delivered almost a 10 pound baby, watched my mother die within one month of a terminal diagnosis and divorced an overbearing, abusive man. However, despite the strength I needed to face all of those challenges, this was definitely the most difficult.  I wish I could look back over the past several months and continue to rationalize all of the red flags I witnessed. I wish I could go back in time and erase all of the anxiety and challenges I have had to face as a result of this relationship....more

Guyz Boyz and Men

Your soggy bodies collapse beside each other, too depleted to even wipe away the beads of sweat swelling above your brow and trickling down into your ears. Your lover rolls off to one side of the bed feeling for a light: you turn and watch the embers at the end of the cigarette ignite, then gaze as he takes a long drag and exhales a vapor trail of smoke into the silence. “Ahhhhhh,” he speaks....more

Addictive Relationships

The Greeks had five words to describe the different levels of love: eros, passionate love, essential desire and longing, romantic love; philia, friendship, loyalty; storge, natural affection; agape, selfless giving; and thelema, desire or will to do something. In the English language we have many states of feeling that describe different elements of love: idolization, affection, devotion, worship, infatuation, lust, passion and rapture. None of which are synonyms for love, as we only have the one word for that, love itself....more

Women Who Plan to Have Lots of Sex May Be Breaking the Law

On January 7, Alex DiBranco reported at Change.org's Women's rights blog that carrying too many condoms and hanging out with another person can get a woman arrested for prostitution in DC. On January, 11, she noted that this insanity is official policy in New York and San Francisco, too. She followed up the next day with the DC Metropolitan Police Department response. ...more

I just read the premisse of your post to my boyfriend who raised his eyebrows and then asked ...more


I'm your typical bachelor......Good looking, well built with light eyes, intelligent, and capable of talking a cat off a fish truck...Nevertheless, the intention of this blog is not to come off as an arrogant prick...Rather, to provide insight for women as to why men do, act, think, say and erect the way they do....I feel my past experiences, whether a relationship, my interfering in one, or just plain whoring around serve as proper credentials to feed the curiosity that torments women across the world on a minute-to-minute basis during their conquest to discovering "The One"... ...more

From fluffy sausage wallets to Pink Parts.


Digging Deep, why I went down the wrong path and got raped, addicted, abused etc

Dawn of Love @ www.wettransformation.ning.com...more

(W)omen (E)xploring, (E)xpressing, (E)mpowering, (T)hemselves, Transformation

Dawn of Love @ www.wettransformation.ning.com ...more

Coming clean about having HPV, Vulvodynia and Pelvic Floor Muscle Dysfunction

Dawn of Love @ www.wettransformation.ning.comThese were originally posted on my facebook and myspace pages......more

Knee Shaking Orgasms...What a Girl Wants!!!

Now I’ve done my share of bed sheet gymnastics.  I’ve engaged in role play, usually playing the part of a damsel in distress rescued by a horny Cop, naughty Fireman and even a studley Plumber.  I’ve been blindfolded and spanked and covered with various jams and jellies.  I’ve been tied up and held down and I’ve even been the object of multiple simultaneous lovers, each bringing their ‘A’ game, or so they claimed. ...more