Some intimate tricks to make sex better.

Sex is a beautiful thing, but sometimes can be painful or messy if you dont know what your doing. Its okay to be a little clumsy but there are always ways to spice up your sex life. Sometimes we lose our sense of adventure, ecspecially when we are in a relationship. Although I am no professional, I can tell you one thing, my sex life is on fire, and I want to share all the dirty little secrets with you ;)1. Know your body...more

Three Is A Crowd

I remember reading a blog post from God knows where about Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher.  According to said blog, the couple had an open relationship in which they would occasionally have threesomes. I personally don't believe in open relationships but I'm not going to knock other couples who choose to engage in this type of relationship.  It was easy for me to at first assume that if this is in fact true, then maybe this could help the couple stay together longer....more

A man with some Q`s of his own to answer

You know that feeling you get when you look at someone and something, though you’re not quite sure what, just doesn’t seem quite right? Maybe your skin starts to crawl or your stomach starts tying itself in knots? You feel a little bit guilty for feeling that way because you know you’re being judgmental but you just can’t shake the feeling that something is off. Something isn’t quite right....more

Lights and Libations

What is your favorite holiday memory?I don’t have a favorite holiday memory. There are so many things I love about the holidays I have had. So many things that are unique.But, to quote Maria from the Sound of Music, these are a few of my favorite things.Lights and libations. I've always said that's what I love most about the holidays. (I love alliteration too.)But there's more.I love the smell of warm apple cider, eggnog and rum balls.I love the warm cozy holiday ambience inside contrasting the crisp cold outside....more

Sexual Assault Isn't Funny, But Social Media Seems To Think So

In 2009 I joined the wonderful world of Twitter. At first, Twitter was hilarious to me. Everyone I followed was from somewhere in the Virgin Islands and we all literally spent our days talking immense amounts of crap to each other for the sake of having something to laugh at. Jokes were always silly, and yes sometimes we went in on each other at the drop of a dime. Still, it's almost as if even though we were inappropriate with our humor there was always a line everyone refused to cross. Fast forward to five years later and Twitter has taken a completely new face....more

Bad Sex: How to Turn it into Great

I’ve heard that guys compare sex to a cake – sometimes it can be awesome and really "tasty", sometimes neuter, but never actually bad. However, for us, girls, the situation is completely different: it can be superhot, but sometimes you just can’t handle it and want to forget it as if it never happened....more

I Was NOT Prepared for Dating in 2014

Dating in 2014 is far different than it was over a decade ago when I was last single. Overt sexuality in the media and a high ratio of women compared to men - especially here in the South, I believe, has changed the dating landscape. In my dating life over the past couple of years, the majority of men I encounter have an expectation that after three dates it is time to “put out” or get out. Three dates?...more
writergal2014 TRUE! Happiness starts within and when it is reflected on the outside I think ...more

Why I Read Romance: Not For The Sex

Heaving bosoms, throbbing manhood, ripped bodices, damsels in distress and burning touches…  Romance fiction is a booming one billion dollar industry.   I am not immune to the seductive allure into fantasy and escapism.  In fact, I probably read 15-20 romance books a year.  I love the handsome, strapping archetypal heroes and the strong, yet soft feminine heroines....more

Love is...Always... in the Air

Today I want to dedicate some time to my boyfriend, Nick.  After all, he more than deserves it. ...more

apparently i'm a cougar

i am shallow.  a creature of physical attraction.  flex your ab muscles at me or let me catch a glimpse of your bi-cep and i'm in love. i was never attracted to guys my age tho.  not even in my early/mid 20's.   i found i was drawn to guys younger than me.  it started out just 4-5 years.  but as i got older, i got more shallow.  i let the visual over ride any and everything else that might matter. ...more