Spa Day!

Yes, I know, I gave you two endings. I just wanted to know which one you like or are they just the same? It’s been a rough few weeks, and it is time to pick up my spirit. You see Mr. Hollywood took back the car, leaving me with nothing but my brother’s old piece of a car to sell toys out of.Now I’m off to the spa. See what happened was…Nikki, a dear old friend from out of town, blew in and insisted that we head off for a day at the spa. I told her everything about Mr. Hollywood, how we met, the trip to California and how he threatens me with a lawsuit if I said anything....more

Sex After Menopause

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4 Red Flags to Never Ignore in a Potential Partner

Dating can be a stressful process, especially if you’re looking for something long term. In the beginning your time is spent getting to know your potential partner....more

"I'm Talking to Someone"- What Does that Mean?

I think its safe to say today’s dating world is more complex than ever. Despite the countless means of communication available at our fingertips, it seems that communication is at an all time low. Every day there seem to be new terms and phrases created around relationships, dating, and sex, yet there is little to no clarification of what they actually mean. This is complicated for people like myself because I believe that dating should be very simple. Boy likes girl, girl likes boy, they get together, etc....more

Were You Sexually Assaulted? I Believe You

I believe you. Even though your face isn’t bruised, even though your bones aren’t broken. Even though it’s been days or weeks since it happened. Even if, at some point in your life, you thought you loved him, or you really did love him. This time, you said no. Maybe you were still together; maybe you were broken up, or breaking up. It doesn’t matter what you wore or what you drank. You said no. More than once. ...more

A Beginners Guide to Awesome Anal Sex

Anal sex can be incredibly hot but it is often misunderstood (no, enjoying anal sex doesn’t make someone gay, it merely means they like anal sex… and with all the nerve endings located in the anus, that’s not such a surprise!) and can be intimidating. But it’s not for everyone. If you have no desire to try anal sex, then don’t. Just like with any other sexual activity, you should never be pressured into doing something that you aren’t comfortable with....more
If articles such as this are going to be published on BlogHer, I think we need a NSFW section. ...more

Buying Your First Vibrator: A Beginner's Guide

From Hitachi Wands to Jack Rabbits, the world has provided us with a wide array of toys to choose from. But where does one start? This is a beginner's guide to vibrators covering the different types, speeds, sizes, and price ranges among them. ...more
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Thanks for the Sex Education for my kid, Carnival Cruise!

I recently took my thirteen year-old daughter on a Carnival Cruise - and she got a big dose of sex education at sea!  We saw lots of skin and some doors were opened for good conversations....more

#RealMenWait4Yes, Because They Know They Are Worthy of It

Rape is when a woman’s right to refuse sex is taken away from her.Rape is when a woman must pay for her survival with her body.Rape is when sex is taken whether or not a woman is physically or mentally capable of giving her consent.Rape is when intimidation is used to compel a woman to engage in sex when she would refuse if she were in an environment where she could otherwise do so safely....more
Hi Kim. I know you and love you and think youre an AWESOME writer and person and will always be ...more

Why All The Sex Talk On BlogHer?

I have been a part of BlogHer for 3-4 years. I am in their publishing network, and I get the daily newsletter. The reason I'm writing this is that I'm getting a little tired of clicking over to BlogHer and I might as well have clicked on to Cosmopolitan, as so many articles posted are sexual in nature. Now I'm not at all conservative in politics or manner nor sexuality. I could never have been called a prude. But now I'm 57 years old, and my years of reading Cosmopolitan magazine are far behind me. ...more
Blogher is an important venue for the discussion of feminist issues and sex is one of them.  Sex ...more
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