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She Finally "Saw"

the Homeless

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Recently the kids and I were in downtown Salt Lake City with grandma and grandpa. Like any other decent size city, it is normal to see homeless people. This day was no exception.

We were walking back to our car after a fun afternoon at the Discovery Gateway Children's Museum. On our way, we passed more than a few homeless people holding their signs.

My daughter

One person in particular caught my attention. His sign read, "Homeless U.S.A.F. Vet with Multiple Sclarosis" (his spelling). The man's hands shook as he held on to his crude, cardboard sign. He was sitting on the pavement with a baseball cap in front of him for donations.

Something tugged at me. I couldn't resist. I reached into my purse for the only one dollar bill I had. Puff asked me what I was doing? I then asked her if she wanted to give this man the money. She answered yes.

I watched as Puff walked the few steps to the homeless man. She shyly placed the dollar in the baseball cap. Before Puff could sneak away the man uttered, "Thank you honey." Puff smiled, ever so slightly, and walked back to me.

The kids and I still had a five minute journey to the car; up the sidewalk; down the escalator; and through the parking garage. I took this time to study Puff. It was obvious those few moments with the homeless man had affected her. I could tell she was processing her feelings.

I had a surge of emotion because I knew that for the first time Puff had seen a homeless person. Of course, she has looked at homeless people before, but this was the first time she had "seen" a lost person.

I saw the look in Puff's eyes. They were sad, but also happy and grateful. She contemplated this man's misfortune. In her eight-year-old mind, Puff wondered about this man's daily existence.

"You feel sad for the man, but happy because you gave him some money, don't you?" I asked.

Puff nodded her head yes.

"What was wrong with the man?", Buzz asked. "Why were his hands shaking?"

I didn't have to answer. Puff did it for me. "He is sick and he doesn't have a home."

I was so proud of her. Puff's understanding of this one man's plight opened her eyes and heart a bit more. The world is not fair. There are those that suffer alone. It is a hard lesson for someone so innocent to learn.

I believe Puff became a better person that day. I hope she will carry the emotions of that day with her; I want her to remember how it felt to reach out and help someone, a stranger in need.

And in her own small way, Puff was the Samaritan.

P.S. For those wondering if I might be a bit naive, I'm not. Whether this man was truly in need or not, I don't care. It was an amazing moment to teach my daughter about compassion for another human being.

Originally posted on Little Tots, Big Ideas.

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atunheim 5 pts

When particularly cold weather hits, I make a huge batch of beef stew and go downtown with my three boys (now 8, 6 and 3) to dole it out right out of the back of our minivan. My oldest ladles, and my younger two hand out and are on spoon duty. There's nothing like it to give them some perspective as we return to our cozy home with a fire going.

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pamlyn 5 pts

Thank you for sharing this heartwarming story and for being a great mom and role model.

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Danielle Tinman Cagan
Danielle Tinman Cagan

Our society needs more compassionate people and it starts at home -- well done!

Leslie Whitney
Leslie Whitney

I tell it like it is to my older kids 4 and 7. The 7yr old is old enough to get it. Its part of life in the city.

Felinda Abreu
Felinda Abreu

My kiddos and I were stopped at a light intersection, there was a man holding a sign for donations/food. My dtr, 8yo, asked why he was standing there holding a sign and I mentioned that he did not have a home. She began to question where he can go to eat, sleep, use the bathroom, etc. It was really hard to explain so that she can easily understand. I can tell on the ride home that she was thinking in her mind about the poor man =(

Alexandria Scott Campbell
Alexandria Scott Campbell

My son is only 3 so it hasn't really come up. But yesterday on a walk he did notice a homeless man with crazy hair & pointed saying "He's from Tangled!!"

Christina Ramos
Christina Ramos

this is an amazing blog. thank you!