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A Sneak Peek at TLC's New Extreme Couponing Series!

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Those of you who have been following my Extreme Couponing posts from the beginning will remember that one of the reasons I got started was because of the TLC Extreme Couponing special that aired last December. I didn't see the show, but I did see a ton of blog posts about the show. Those posts, along with a couple of other things that happened in my life, led me to start what I now call The Great Extreme Couponing Experiment (picture that all in capital letters, please.) I owe it all to that TV show (well... 1/3 of it to TLC). So when the nice folks at TLC (Hi Matt!) invited me to watch the first episode of their new Extreme Couponing series, I couldn't say no.

I'm not going to give you any spoilers but I am going to tell you what you'll see -- and a little bit about what you won't see.

In the first segment, you'll meet J'aime the Extreme Coupon Diva. J'aime started couponing almost two years ago when her husband lost his job. From reading coupon blogs and forums, this seems to be a fairly common reason for people to come to extreme couponing. Teri Gault, an actress who owns The Grocery Game, started for this reason. The second reason I started extreme couponing was because my partner quit a job and after finding new employment, we were still bringing in about 1/3 less than we had been. We knew we had to cut costs and work harder to save money. Extreme couponing and being careful with food spending seemed like a great place to start.

In the second segment, you'll meet Tiffany from My Litter and her husband Paul from I Heart the Mart. Tiffany and Paul have seven kids and again, this is a pretty common theme among couponers. Some of us have large families! I have six kids, though only three live at home (and college tuition isn't cheap). TW's mom also lives with us and we provide health and beauty items (and some food) for her disabled sister who lives in an assisted living facility. Those costs can really add up!

In both episodes, our couponers head to one grocery store and make huge purchases. J'aime in particular notes that this is the largest trip she's ever done.

Any time you see stories on TV or in print about couponing, you're going to see the most extreme shopping trips possible. This isn't new. Read Susan Samtur, the original Coupon Queen's book, she talks about being paid (or asked) to do big trips for the cameras. It's eye-catching -- it's entertainment -- it's spin! TLC's Extreme Couponing isn't there to teach the every day person how to use coupons and stockpiling to save money. They're producing this show as entertainment.

From J'aime's blog:

Now, I experience the feeling of euphoria when instead of spending over $1,000 a month on groceries I am spending less than $200!

While it might be interesting to watch a more normal couponing experience, it isn't nearly as entertaining. Would you rather follow me around to six stores over a one week period and watch me buy $50 worth of merchandise at CVS for $2.55 (getting back $12.50 in ECB) or would you rather watch someone buy $1,000 worth of groceries for less than $50? Exactly.

You should watch TLC's Extreme Couponing because it's fascinating and entertaining. But you should not believe that all couponers shop this way every week. We don't. I could do exactly what J'aime and Tiffany did, but it would take more time than I want to spend and I'm not really in this to provide entertainment. Well okay, some of you have found my extreme couponing very entertaining. But what I'm doing is real -- it's not for TV. What The Mrs. does, isn't for TV. What Samantha does, isn't for TV.

None of this means that there aren't lessons to be learned from watching TLC's Extreme Couponing and that's why I'm kicking off a new month-long coupon challenge. We can improve our couponing skills, share great deals, and have watch our savings add up. (As an extra bonus, the folks at TLC might just be watching (Hi again, Matt!) and they just might feature your story on TLC's Extreme Couponing Facebook page. I'll be featuring some of your stories on the BlogHer

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I don't think $40 is small potatoes at all! No, it isn't going to get you on Extreme Couponing but that's not really anyone's goal, is it? Heh.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

Well that answers my question - I thought I remembered you saying how long you'd been doing this $40 thing but I couldn't remember for sure.

4 years -- that's really impressive!

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Nobody wants to be Ethel 5 pts

Another reality show to add to my list to watch. Entertaining and interesting concept. The thing about reality shows is that I always feel better about my foibles no matter how big or small.

It is time consuming keeping track of all the coupons. But then again sorting out the mail is event for me too, so I do the coupon and mail sorting all at the same time. Lots of recycled paper. I get excited if I save $40 at the grocery store. Small potatoes.

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sarahsdeals 5 pts

I'm with you there. I really wasn't all that into the show to start with. Mainly because what they are showing is VERY extreme and not something the average household could do.

I have a method to what I do, a small stockpile and it works for me. I've managed to keep our family of four to $40 or less per week in groceries for over 4 years (2 1/2 of which are documented on my blog).

Going to the extreme will help you build a stockpile in the beginning, but as a way of life it looks (IMO) to be hoarding. At the point that you have to start rearranging your house to store it, I just feel it's too much.

Mir Kamin 6 pts

It seems like TLC's toned down the show just a tad from the original few episodes, but folks, please remember to take all of this with a grain of salt.

There is a lot of controversy surrounding J'aime's appearance on the show. I'll refer you to Jasmine at Dealicious Finds ( http://dealiciousfinds.com/ramblings/tlc-extreme-c... ) for a taste of it, and she, in turn, points to Jill Cataldo's post ( http://jillcataldo.com/node/16170 ).

I remain annoyed by this show for all kinds of reasons, not the least of which being that it truly operates on the point-and-gawk principle, which is never something that appeals to me. But when they're so sloppy as to not do their homework and showcase fraudulent coupon usage ON THE SHOW, well, what little credibility they had is now lost for me.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I hear you on that secret thing. ;-)

I also hear you re: the newspaper. I'd been threatening to cancel our subscription because nobody ever read the darn thing. Now I'm glad I didn't!

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MealMixer 5 pts

I'll have to watch this show in secret unless I remember to print out your post for my husband.

I'm in the challenge - just hope my newspaper subscription (that I let lapse) lasts long enough for me to get coupons!

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Denise 9 pts moderator

share them... what did you think? Which shopper do you think is most like you? Which is least like you?

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FamilyFrugal 5 pts

I am SO not an extreme couponer. I'm a strategic shopper. BUT I am glued to the TV tonight!

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I cannot imagine dealing with that many inserts. I have trouble dealing with just the regular inserts from one paper, heh.

J'aime does tell people how she gets her inserts tonight...

And I've seen others talk about the ways they get multiple inserts: dumpster diving, visiting the paper recycling center in their areas, collecting from coworkers.

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LillyandGish 5 pts

Can't wait to watch the episode tonight, but I hope TLC eventually shares some trick of the trade. Like where you do get 1100 inserts?? The show is what got me started, I can't believe all the money I was wasting shopping on an 'as need' basis. But now I'm running out of room! Oh to have a whole room for my stockpile!

The Mrs 5 pts

Oh my goodness. They are adorable. Thanks, Denise.

The Mrs ( http://www.themrs.ca ) Housewifery, general cheapskatery, and butter. Lots of butter. Sometimes even on bread.

Denise 9 pts moderator

you are not the general American viewer.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

You should totally be able to watch it, so not fair.

It was fascinating and entertaining. Huge trips, even bigger savings. Tiffany's kids are cute and her husband is adorable. Here, let me show you a video from Tiffany's blog:

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The Mrs 5 pts

Now I wish I wasn't too cheap to get TLC. And Canada's content laws weren't too strict for me to watch it online.

Good thing I entertain myself, at least. Could you imagine anyone wanting to watch THAT on tv?!

The Mrs ( http://www.themrs.ca ) Housewifery, general cheapskatery, and butter. Lots of butter. Sometimes even on bread.

TW 6 pts

I go shopping with you and am very entertained. Last week at CVS would've made a great segment. You were ahead of the price change person, so I had to keep running to scan. I had fun ensuring the right items found their way to the cart.

Watching you with the kids is fun too. Watching it dawn on their faces that things are expensive but don't need to cost that much is cool. Watching them learn how to stretch a dollar warms my heart--because as much as they think they will never "need" to do so, it makes sense to learn good shopping habits.

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