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Gaining Balance Between
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I'm going to admit it - I am often overwhelmed lately by how much there is to do online and how much you feel like you're missing out if you log off. Before smartphones, it was never a given that someone could reach you via email. Now, with my blackberry, I can literally check email 24/7 no matter where I am if I choose, and the pressure is silently there to do so or miss out.

When it was just blogging and there were a handful of blogs out there, it was easy and enjoyable to keep up. But now it's not just blogging and commenting -- it's Twitter and Facebook and Pinterest and Stumbleupon. Many of them move in real time, and if you log off, you miss the conversation.

And then it feels like you're back in middle school, left out.

Mama's Monologues has a post about trying to find balance with her online time. Our overwhelmed feelings about online time feel remarkably similar:

I’ve been battling the online world. For a while, I thought I was losing, drowning in a sea of unread posts, swimming through comments. Dodging between time on the twitter.

I enjoy being online. But at the same time, I was starting to resent it.

I resented that I could never finish anything I wanted to in one day. I resented that time online was taking away from time with my family. Time to just be me.

Her solution is to unplug.

Have you ever gone on a social media break? What was your experience?

Photo Credit: Anieto2k.

Read more from Finding Balance in Unplugging at Mama's Monologues

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Christine S 13 pts

Way to go, being here!

I have unplugged. It was a little hard but wonderful. And coming back was wonderful, too. Every once in a while I let myself have a day when I just completely give over and indulge in the blogosphere. Those are fun days.

Kirsten Piccini 14 pts

I had no idea you'd been featured, see what happens when I UNPLUG too??? I agree, we need that time to just take a break, to put the phone down and talk, laugh, spend the time to reconnect. I find that I am happier, more settled and a little less angry (yep) when I can just step back.

Sheila Cameron 6 pts

My husband and I both did it for a weekend. It was really challenging but here are the results. It was wonderful http://watchingthepaintdry.typepad.com/my-blog/2011/09/unprocessed-experience.html

Sonia W 6 pts

I have scheduled "mental blog breaks" weekly where I have just 1-2 days where I don't even think about anything social media. It's important to me to connect with my family and the attention they deserve. I don't like feeling as I am on my laptop 24/7 even though I feel like that at times.

Now, if someone is creating a business around this, it might change things a bit, but I still have a full time job so it's not always my prime focus. Good post.

Monkey 9 pts

Oh yes...when I'm on vacation, I'm on vacation from everything. No facebook, no twitter, no email unless it's family. I only text my mom and maybe one friend to send her pics. And there are plenty of times that I avoid twitter and facebook in any given day, just to focus on the here and now with myself and family. It's just too much information to ingest every day.

Alison@Mama Wants This 16 pts

So happy to see you here :)

Ah the tug and pull of online and offline life - such a difficult thing to balance.

mytemperedtantrum 6 pts

This is one of the big reasons I still resist getting a smart phone. I'm on the computer enough as it is already, and I'm afraid of how addicted I would truly get if I had an iPhone. It's so tempting though!

Kim @ Mamas Monologues 5 pts

That's a good reason. I have an iPhone and it sure is addicting!

By Word of Mouth Musings 6 pts

Congrats to you ... and you are one of the greatest giver on line that i know ... you and your blogateers ;)

Kim @ Mamas Monologues 5 pts

Thank you so much! By Word of Mouth Musings

kehouse 5 pts

It really is relentless. It takes a certain (healthy) perspective to know when enough is enough, but I have yet to find it.

Great post.

Kim @ Mamas Monologues 5 pts

There sure is a lot to do with the online world. It's easy to get sucked in. kehouse

PoetInThePantry 10 pts

I'm going through this right now. We had no power for 4 days and it made me realize how much I've been missing out on by being plugged in all day. It's difficult to maintain balance, but I really need to unplug more. I love my blog and I love social media, but it can't be my whole life either.

Kim @ Mamas Monologues 5 pts

I completely agree. Though I love social media, I do need to unplug more for my family. PoetInThePantry

Conversation from Twitter

ChocolateBottle
ChocolateBottle

blogher such a shame, I have tried to sign on an acct and it won't take my word verification. It's a match, but it won't take it 4x...done.

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

ByWordsMusings Ha! So true! blogher

MiddleAgedPlagu
MiddleAgedPlagu

blogher Every Sunday -- all electronics off, at least for me. The only thing making sparks is my knitting needles.

BlogHer
BlogHer

middleagedplagu Good for you! That's a great idea. -Momo

bkeepsushonest
bkeepsushonest

adventuroo I know you like Don Quixote. If you like Star Wars too this just might be for you http://t.co/YAvZT2pm

adventuroo
adventuroo

bkeepsushonest OMG OMG OMG this is the greatest! Yes, we're uber Star Wars fans over here. Thanks for sending me the link!

adventuroo
adventuroo

bkeepsushonest I just bought one for Daddy Roo!

bkeepsushonest
bkeepsushonest

adventuroo awesome! We love all things star wars!

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

adventuroo Thank you! blogher

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

MamaRiceCake Thank you!

MamaRiceCake
MamaRiceCake

MamasMonologues You're on a roll this week! I'm so proud of you!!!

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

MamaRiceCake Thanks!!

TwinkieTotMom
TwinkieTotMom

MamasMonologues That is awesome news! Congrats Kim!

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

TwinkieTotMom Thank you!

GalitBreen
GalitBreen

Congrats!! RT MamasMonologues My post about unplugging is featured on blogher today. Come visit! http://t.co/zIhXgzW6

Mama_Mash
Mama_Mash

MamasMonologues Very cool! Congrats!

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

angelaamman thank you! blogher

story3girl
story3girl

MamasMonologues Holy crap, girl, you're everywhere! Hooray!

MamasMonologues
MamasMonologues

story3girl I know!

evil_bat_witch
evil_bat_witch

carrieactually that's just crazy talk. going off line... psshh.

carrieactually
carrieactually

evil_bat_witch i know. my fiance is trying to talk me into an iphone free honeymoon and i'm not sure i could do it

Conversation from Facebook

Karen Klasi Wentlandt
Karen Klasi Wentlandt

I took a week off of FB before Christmas last year and crossed off every single thing on my very long list! I will do it again this year.

Lisa Kerr
Lisa Kerr

Like Janet, I'm a Blogger. My audience was becoming emotionally draining (or maybe those were trolls). I stayed offline often and reduced my blogging.

Tracee Sioux
Tracee Sioux

every weekend

Mamiverse
Mamiverse

Not easy!

Janet Spiegel
Janet Spiegel

Yes. I'm a blogger with a large audience & lost my steam the past few months. It happened about 3 years ago as well. It's not quite like writer's block...it's more like online fatigue....as I ALSO respond on Facebook! Lol.

Megan Homenko Clouse
Megan Homenko Clouse

I dream of it often (as i reply on facebook).