We are getting settled in to the apartment and as I’ve been updating friends and family beyond my immediate family I am making mental notes of their responses. Housing is such a personal choice with, I am learning, all sorts of emotional ties involved. I’m just as guilty as the next guy as I look back at my 20′s and 30′s and realize I was chasing a housing dream defined for me by others–namely, society. When I take stock of . . .