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What would you do if someone was breaking into your house with a 12-inch hunting knife while your three-month-old was in the other room? Would you call 911? Would you shoot the intruder? 18-year-old Sarah McKinley of Oklahoma did both of those things. She called 911 first, asking if she was allowed to shoot him. When the dispatcher told her that she couldn't give her permission, but that she was allowed to protect herself, Sarah chose to shoot the intruder when he finally broke in.

Daisy at Chicks on the Right shares a bit of McKinley's statement and expands upon it. Do you agree?

gun“I wouldn’t have done it, but it was my son,” McKinley told ABC News Oklahoma City affiliate KOCO. “It’s not an easy decision to make, but it was either going to be him or my son. And it wasn’t going to be my son. There’s nothing more dangerous than a woman with a child.”

Slight “Chicks” correction – there’s nothing more dangerous than a woman with a child, legally and constitutionally armed and able to shoot to kill someone who’s trying to harm her or said child.

Photo Credit: gideon.

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Mayaleen 5 pts

My thoughts were similar to Jessi T's... Unless I'm missing something, it appeared that it was HER life at risk here, probably not her child's, although the child would certainly be affected by anything happening to the mother. Rape is what came to my mind, too.

Jessi T 6 pts

Every comment I've seen agrees that she had the right to protect her child. I agree with that also. But even if there was no child in the home, she had every right to protect HERSELF and her proterty.Two men with knives were likely not interested in her child, but in her! Drugs maybe, but in my mind I see more of a rape cinereo. I'm glad she had the means and the guts to do what was neccessary. Yes, a life lost is sad, but 2 lives saved is better.

jes 7 pts

I would absolutely wield a weapon to protect my family, are you kidding? Absolutely. I've been shooting since I was eight, so I wouldn't go for a broad, easy target like the chest. I'd aim for kneecaps. The intruder would be less likely to die that way, and more likely to have to live with his injuries and actions for the rest of his life.

Nikke 7 pts

If what is reported in the news is the correct version of facts, then: (1) the man who was killed knew his intended victim as had harrassed her before (2) the man who was killed had already exhibited recent suspect behaviour just a few days prior to the incident (3) the man was attempting to break into the home of a single woman - facts he knew, as knew her husband had died (4) the man had a second male with him, and since he knew the intended victim lived alone was setting up a two on one situation (5) the man did not quietly attempt a catburglary in a manner where he could non confrontationally break in and leave with drugs - he noisly banged on the doors for 21 minutes and ensured the intended victim had no exit as he was at one door and his accomplice at the other (6) he was holding a large knife that is used to kill not a pen knife to pop a lock (7) he popped drugs prior to the break-in which would contribute to a feeling of bravado - they are not an excuse for his behaviour but a reason to showforethought not impulsivity in his actions. In conclusion, I think it is rather obvious that the man was perhaps looking for drugs but also looking to assault his intended victim. If it were only about drugs he would have broken into her house when no one was home, in a stealthy manner. It is a mobile home, not a mansion - doubt he needed her there to lead him to where drugs would be kept! Seriously. She maybe did not warn that she had a gun - but was he yelling out " I have a large knife!"???? She shot him when he aggressively actually broke into her home - not during the attempts. She maybe shot deliberately to kill - or maybe just randomly shot and got lucky. Or maybe he ould die at that range regardless. Who cares? He was obviously a sociopath intent on causing he grievous harm otherwise no need for aggressive break-in, blocked exits and the knife. In that situation a victim does not have to figure out the gunshot that would cause least harm. I am sure Dr. Petit from Conneticut has no issues with how this story ended.

Nikke 7 pts

Also I did not mention her baby as am sure the baby wa not his intended primary victim, and if there had been no baby she still acted appropriately. Since when is having a baby the only time a woman can defend herself aggressively against two male home invaders with clear intent of violence? ( again, peaceful home invaders on't noisily attempt to beeak in for 21 minutes while weilding a large knife)!

Random-Mom 10 pts

I love her attitude and am glad that both she and her son are safe.

ShoreBookworm 18 pts

I would do anything to protect my children. I would give my life for them without a thought. That said, I am very disturbed by this story and the overwhelming “good job” comments. On the news link there are over 14000 comments. I obviously have not read them all, but the ones I have read are unanimous in their support of Ms. McKinley’s use of deadly force.

I have many questions. Why was she on the phone to 911 for over 20 minutes? Is she in such a rural area that she is more than 20 minutes away from the nearest police station? She had not one but two guns, a situation I find concerning with a child in the house, but it is legal, so that’s that. But why, if she was armed, did these men continue to pursue breaking and entering? Could she have not wounded the man rather than kill him? These might all have very reasonable answers. But I just am very uncomfortable with the whole scenario.

It is tragic that she is only 18, has just lost her husband and now is responsible for the death of another human being. I am very, very glad that she and the baby are safe. But considering a man is dead, even though he had criminal intent, I cannot join the chorus of “Well done!” My reaction is more like a very wary “Well, if you had to…”

adventuresinbaby 5 pts

ShoreBookworm I agree. A man is dead. She did what she felt she needed to do to protect herself and her child. I don't know what I would have done because I have never been faced with a similar situation. His death should not be celebrated. I think people want to celebrate the fact that a young mom protected her baby. It's just difficult to separate the two and comes across like everyone is happy a man is dead. I don't think people are happy he is dead, just happy she and her baby are safe.

ShoreBookworm 18 pts

adventuresinbaby Good points. You are absolutely right, I do not know what I would do in the same situation, although I do not own a gun, so that is out of the equation. And I think you are right, I want you to be right, that most people are happy she and the baby were not harmed, not happy that she killed a man.

Red Dirt Kelly 82 pts

We asked the same thing of our readers. We're okies, and this one was close to home. So far, it's 100% chiming in with "good for her," and "Hell yes, I'd shoot." Tonight, our news report showed "the other side of the story" where the intruder's friend's were given the chance to speak up for him. That was difficult to watch because they were clearly in pain about the entire thing. Overall, however, I think it's an incredibly compelling story. I've sat on the stairs with a gun in my hand and another person on the other side of the door banging like crazy at midnight. I would have shot them. I had two babies in the house and my husband worked nights. I would have shot them and not hesitated, had they gotten in.

LRaine 6 pts

They were dumb enough to take the risk of burglarizing an sharp, widowed, lactating, protective mother. Even without the tragedy of losing her husband a woman in that condition is dangerous to mess with. I nearly cheered when I was this news story. Can I say that out loud?

Pamellla 5 pts

in answer to the question what did they want: her husband passed away from cancer on Christmas. Speculation is the perps thought there were strong pain killers still in the home.

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GuardianTrace
GuardianTrace

blogher blogherfamily You should be willing to do anything to protect yourself and\/or your child...even though it's traumatic.

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Polish Mama on the Prairie
Polish Mama on the Prairie

Oh, and in the meantime, if some dumb bleep breaks into my house while I live in IL, Castle Law or no Castle Law. You don't try to hurt my kids. Or me, because if I'm hurt or killed, I can't protect my kids.

Polish Mama on the Prairie
Polish Mama on the Prairie

Yes. And I wouldn't apologize either. Once I found out IL does not have Castle Laws, it sealed the deal that we will be moving. Because if you try to hurt my kids.....

Amy Schnekenburger Walker
Amy Schnekenburger Walker

Yes I would!
And I heard on the radio today, that the second guy is the one that actually gets charged?

Susan Neel Wiederhold
Susan Neel Wiederhold

Jim, how did she know he didn't have something else worse? Mace wouldn't have done it....gun was perfect solution.

Monica Monroe
Monica Monroe

Got to prep the mind to attack with deadly force without hesitation.....

Paula Montalvo
Paula Montalvo

In a heartbeat!!! No questions asked!

Merik Hollis King
Merik Hollis King

Jim, my question is why was he in her house uninvited? He had no business there-his intent was evil - end of story.

Leslie Whitney
Leslie Whitney

Ill say yes but i bet many of us wouldnt or else this kind of story would happen more often, but it doesnt.

Megan Sykes White
Megan Sykes White

I'd do whatever it took to protect my children. Yes, I'd shoot to kill

Deb Gray
Deb Gray

Never owned a gun, have never seen one - unless in the holster of a cop - and I would prefer to keep it that way. period.

Jim Geßner
Jim Geßner

How did she know he had a 12" hunting knife before he entered her house?

Ivy Shih Leung
Ivy Shih Leung

I would but in NJ you would be up murder charges, unfortunately. You can fight the charges but go bankrupt in the process.

Gwen Stackler
Gwen Stackler

Usually I stand on the side of "guns are bad, no one should have them", but reading the details of this particular story...I am really glad that she had a gun and that she used it. Now I would just like to know why those two guys wanted into her house so badly.

Kim Duhame McNeil
Kim Duhame McNeil

YES!! Without doubt.

Christine McLaughlin Piecyk
Christine McLaughlin Piecyk

Yes. No question. It's why I got a gun in the first place.

Della Hill
Della Hill

I am appreciating how unanimous these comments are.
I agree!

Jacki Carugati McHale
Jacki Carugati McHale

Kids or not. I would have shot. But with my babies at home?! Not even a question!

Bella TearSa Said
Bella TearSa Said

Yes. Absolutely.

Janece Herrington
Janece Herrington

Without a second thought :)

Sarah Hawkes Valente
Sarah Hawkes Valente

Anyone who thinks we shouldn't own guns should think long and hard about this kind of situation happening in their home with their child. That little mama would NEVER have been able to fight off those men with a kitchen knife. Thank God her late husband left her protected. Such an incredibly sad story all around.

Cheryl Muzynski Sorce
Cheryl Muzynski Sorce

Absolutely.

Gwendolyn Lee
Gwendolyn Lee

Nothing more dangerous than a mama with a babe to protect. Don't forget it.

Shelli Clemens
Shelli Clemens

My glock isn't ornamental & I pity the fool who tries to break into my home.

Yolinda Carroll
Yolinda Carroll

Shoot.In Then Call911.

Shannon Hayes Winkle
Shannon Hayes Winkle

Absolutely!

Brittany Price
Brittany Price

You bet I would!! Gotta protect my kids and I!

Natalie Anastasia Green
Natalie Anastasia Green

Yep. No hesitation.

Rebecca Fulbright Akers
Rebecca Fulbright Akers

Yep, shoot then shoot ' em again..that's what my dad always told me to do!

Terri Patillo
Terri Patillo

Shoot. Then reload and shoot again.

Merik Hollis King
Merik Hollis King

I'm with the ladies above. Get a good gun and learn how to shoot it. Then have a plan if there is a home invasion.

Shelby Fae
Shelby Fae

In a heartbeat.