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[Editor's Note: It's hard (read: busy) to be a family in today's world. Johnny has Tai Kwan Do and soccer and violin and Suzy has ballet and Girl Scouts and softball and the baby has story time and Gymboree and on and on and on. Jen at People I Want to Punch in the Throat wants you to stop complaining that you're busy if you chose to be that busy. What are your thoughts? -Jenna]

People Who Complain They're Busy, but They're Busy with Stupid Stuff:

LIttle League baseball, May 2009 - 03OK, so you know those people who complain about how busy they are - but it's not with work or anything really "important"? It's more like, "Oh gawd, I'm sooooo busy, because Eustace and Duncan and Dorset have Tae Kwon Do on Mondays, baseball practice on Tuesdays, violin and cello on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays, soccer all day on Saturdays, baseball for the OTHER team they play for Wednesdays, and Kumon on Fridays." My head wants to explode just reading that.

A few years ago, before I had any kids, I was showing a house to my client and on the wall of the kitchen the home owners had a schedule with different colors for each kid. They had four kids and from what I could gather each child participated in 2-3 activities per week and didn't get home from their activities before 9 PM on most nights. These were elementary and middle school aged kids. When did they eat dinner? When did they do their homework? What time did they finally get to bed? When did they have time to play with their Ponies and Legos or ride their bikes?

Right then and there I decided 2 kids max and only one activity per child at a time. Forget them, I couldn't take that kind of schedule!

Photo Credit: yourdon.

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kaurnawoman 6 pts

Wikipedia's definition of family says 'a group of people affected by consanguinity, affinity or co-residence'. Except for the first not a whole lot of affinity or co-residence going on.

Retire In Style Blog.Com 8 pts

@addthis I am beginning to think that we have forgotten how to have a good day.

What is a good day? Have you forgotten? (http://bit.ly/xuMNem )

hiddenponies 12 pts

I couldn't agree more - I don't know if the number of kids makes a difference, but I feel there is so much pressure to have them in everything - I don't think anyone benefits from that kind of schedule. I want my kids to learn how to play and entertain themselves sometimes too!

insanex3 5 pts

I haven't as yet included pictures, but you can use any material I've written for back up, or to take a punch at if you choose to!
Here's my latest, feel free to use any entries. your blog rocks!

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Anne Kimball 13 pts

I used to be one of those moms (hanging head). I went from "only one activity per child" to "well, really that should be only one sport per child, but they can also each learn a musical instrument and take scouts and take that super-fun science class and...." I know. Vomit. Now? Now that I have six kids and they couldn't care less and neither could I? Only one is in a play and one is in student council and that's IT. We are done. And I LOVE IT!

mandylenton7644 5 pts

I agree! I wan't my kiddos involved in a few activities but where is the time to connect as a family? I have three young kids and some of our biggest bonding times during the week are at dinner time. We make a point to turn everything off and sit at the table. Besides if my kids schedules become too much for me... it's only fair to conclude it's too much for them. Life needs balance! like you said one activity per child so it leaves time for homework, friends, outdoor play, family time, etc.

JessieLeigh 5 pts

I agree. I think these families that get so involved in so many activities they don't have time to eat dinner until late at night, or even be together as a family are losing sight of what is important in life. Not baseball, karate, violin, but each other.