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We're Not Co-Sleeping... or Using a Crib

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Has your mom ever called you crazy for a parenting decision you've made? Maybe your mother-in-law? Tara, at Tall Tara, has endured such things from her mom (though her mother-in-law has been too polite to say it) because they're not using a crib for their adorable baby. Unlike the to-cosleep-or-crib-your-baby arguments, Tara and her husband have chosen a no crib, bed-on-the-the-floor option. Have you heard of this before?

She shared how they came to their decision:

From the beginning, Adam and I never liked the idea of a crib. We called it a “baby prison”. There are stories of Adam crawling out of his crib, while I used to slam mine against the wall to get the attention of my parents. Yikes. Could you imagine what our offspring would do to a crib?

We discovered an alternative while reading a book about Montessori and early childhood development. Montessori believed that a baby should sleep on a small bed on the floor in a room that’s been made safe for him. This way, a child can foster his sense of exploration by having the ability to get out of bed and crawl around his room. He can also engage in solo play time, which is as important for baby as it is for Mom.

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Be sure to continue reading -- because the pics are twelve kinds of adorable.

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Sally G 11 pts

My nephew had a floor mattress at first, later a crib; not sure of my sister/b-i-l’s rationale, but it worked.

Emily@SAHM.i.AM 14 pts

We co-slept because it was our only option living on a small sailboat...it worked really well until she was about 18 months. When it stopped working and we were in a house we moved our daughter to a crib. It was a long process...I didn't realize this was an option until we'd taken her crib rail off making it a "toddler" bed. I love this idea and if we're in a house when baby number two comes along, this is totally how I want to do it!

SunbonnetSmart.com 31 pts

Hello there! Yes! Absolutely! When my husband and I took our 2 month old baby on a cross country camping trip to Denver, CO, my girlfriend Cherie, mother of three boys, introduced me to the idea of having my child "live" on the floor. She said that way they will never fall. And it was true as he never did. Floor sleeping gave us a secure feeling. We had him right next to the bed where I could check on him and soothe him during the night. We also had the "safe area" room of which you speak. It was right next to the kitchen, so he could see me, but gated so he could not get near the stove or in my path. I'm a quilter and I made a sleeping pad 4' x 4' which folded up for travel and gave him a sense of continuity. We must have done OK as he is now getting ready for college, where, I'm assuming, he'll sleep in a bed.... :)

MrsGreenberg 5 pts

Sounds like an interesting idea that makes a lot of sense.

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fancypancakes
fancypancakes

blogher that's how my son slept. Worked great for #breastfeeding especially after I was back at work.

lolabelly
lolabelly

blogher interesting article. Thx for sharing! My DD in 7th year ( gr 6) at Montessori

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Esther Kraig
Esther Kraig

ADORABLE! But how does she nurse him at night? That's my main reason for cosleeping - so that I can just roll over to feed the baby and go back to sleep. This system still means getting up in the middle of the night to tend a hungry baby. That means sleepy, cranky mommy!

Anne-Marie Ross
Anne-Marie Ross

Huh? Gotta read this one!

Nadja Brocus
Nadja Brocus

The pictures are awesome. SO cute. I like the idea.

Christina Lane
Christina Lane

I keep seeing these everywhere! - my kids always hate their cribs and do sleep in them but prefer the pack and play with see through soft sides. I don't know if I want to deal with being them not napping right when they are layed down though - as in they can crawl around and explore the room that seems like kind of a pain. The pack and play and cribs are cues for my kids to go to bed and stay. When we move them to big beds at 18months or when they are old enough to understand 'stay in the bed'

Della Hill
Della Hill

I think it's a great idea.

Sharon Emery
Sharon Emery

I'm not a parent, but if I were, I would totally do this.

Katy Wolk-Stanley
Katy Wolk-Stanley

The only thing that concerns me are the low wall mounted heaters in the room.

Nelle Douville
Nelle Douville

Low is good. A child in my former town fell out of a crib and the result was disastrous. *If* parents do use a crib, first sign of a will to get out, stop using it. I like the floor option.