What if We Traded in Our Wishes For Dreams?

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Jill Phillips wrote a song called “Steel Bars.”I love it. Look it up.Sometimes I feel so imprisoned inside my own limitations.Surrounded by my sin.My discontent.Not holy discontent.Sinful discontent.The kind that causes you to look around and wish for anything and everything that is not your current reality.I wish I had her arms.I wish my husband could mow the lawn.I wish we could afford to go to that concert.I wish I didn’t have to work.I wish I could sleep at night.wishwishwishAt the end of each wish is a tastier, greener-grass, more-fulfilling, easier life.The problem with all of those wishes, though?They are lies.Because if I had her arms, I’d want her arms.And if my husband could mow the lawn, I’d wish he wouldn’t do something else.And there are never enough concerts.If I didn’t work, I’d wish I did.Sleep is something I wish for when I’m exhausted, but something I wish away when I’m on a productive streak.I’d rather dream than wish, anyway.Because at least dreams are something I can work towards.Dreams are possible.Dreams are actionable.We can take our dreams to our God and to our friends and to our husbands and mull them around. They can bend and stretch and sometimes die or become something else, but they’re moldable.We can do something about dreams.So today, I take my discontent and all my “why me’s” and my wishes to the cross.Lay them down.Trade those burden in.For dreams.And goals.And possibility and grace and favor and ask God to partner with me in making change, instead of begging for a different life than the one He clearly has designed for me.I’ll put one foot in front of the other.Trust.Hope.Pray.Run towards God with my questions and my fears and my passions and dreams.A couple of years ago, I was producing a TV interview with a presidential candidate and his wife and there was something she said that stopped me in my tracks. . . .

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