Stimulating the Clitoris
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body. Some women are unable to achieve an orgasm without stimulating this very sensitive area. The clitoris contains over 8000 nerve endings, and similiar to to penis, becomes filled with blood and becomes erect when stimulated. With proper stimulation, a woman can achieve a powerful orgasm without sexual intercourse, or vaginal stimulation. The clitoris resembles a small pink bud,located in front of the opening to the vagina, situated within the labia. It is covered with skin, which is called the clitoral hood.
When a woman masturbates, she may use her fingers, massaging the clitoris to achieve an orgasm. Gentle to more vigorous massage with one or two fingers can bring a woman to an intense orgasm. Some women prefer less lubrication on the clitoris to provide more control with the fingers on the clit. In certain instances, placing your middle finger on the clit, while the other fingers are bent and resting on the outer lips, can give you the control and speed you need to achieve an orgasm.
Some women prefer to masturbate using a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. There a multitude of clitoral vibrators that vary in size and power. Here are some product suggestions that will accomodate a woman's desired amount of stimulation for her clitoris.
Laya Spot - The Laya Spot is a great clitoral vibrator for beginners. Its size and curved ergonomic shape makes this vibe easy to use. The rounded tip provides comfortable, adequate coverage on the clitoris, while the multi-speeds allow you to choose your desired amount of stimulation.
Silver Bullet - This is a great vibe for clitoral stimulation, plus you can also insert it for vaginal, and anal stimulation. It is powerful and also offers multiple speeds for your choice of intensity. The Silver Bullet is also very affordable, and is great for users who are new to vibrators, and want to experiment with clitoral stimulation with a vibrator for the first time.
i Vibe Pocket Rocket - The Pocket Rockets are an extremely popular clit vibrator. It only offers one speed, but is packs in the power. Previous users love it because of its small discreet size, and ease of use. This vibe is great to use alone, or even incorporate the vibe during sexual intercourse as it is small enough to not get in the way of your sexual play.
Mystic Wand - This is an extremely powerful vibe. Unlike other wand massagers, this is battery operated, without annoying cords to get in the way. It also offers six vibration functions, ranging from continuous vibration to pulsation modes. You will definitely enjoy the intensity of this vibe as it can potentially give you an orgasm in under a minute. The Hitachi Magic Wand is another intense vibrator. It is a little bigger than the Mystic Wand and is powered by electricity, as opposed to batteries.
Tips for the Male Partner:
If you thought that sexual intercourse alone was enough to get a woman to orgasm, you are wrong. The penis is not always enough. If you want to be the ultimate lover in bed, learning to stimulate the clitoris is an essential part of satisfying your partner.
Tease Her, Turn Up the Heat - Build up to the final act. A good introduction is always key to getting a woman turned on. Instead of just playing with her breasts, which can be boring, and not as pleasurable to some women, place your hand where her clit is and apply a light to heavier massage. Even if she is still wearing clothing, the pressure of your hands massaging her clit, can be an extreme turn on, and make her wet.
Get Down to Business - Once the clothes come off, work your way down to her clit. Lubricate your finger by delving into her vagina then rubbing across her clit, or by applying some lubricant. Then, gently stroke her clit with your fingers. She may prefer a lighter touch or more pressure. Pay attention to how she is responding, and also by asking her if it feels good. You can also insert two fingers into her vagina, while using your thumb to caress her clit. she may achieve an orgasm by doing this.
Apply Some Tongue Action - Giving her oral sex can also make some women achieve an orgasm. Tease her by kissing and licking her outer labia. Then, work your way to her clit. Play with different movements of your tongue from a swirling to up and down movement. Some women love it when you suck on the clit. You can also insert your fingers into her vagina while giving her oral sex.
While you are having sexual intercourse, you can also incorporate a vibrator by massaging her clit with it, which can be extremely pleasurable for her. In addition, there are also vibrating cock rings that you can wear, which contain a bullet or small stimulator, which when you are fully inside her, will stimulate her clit. Some examples of vibrating cock rings are the Double Dolphin, The Vibrating Johnny, and Diving Dolphin.