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Texting, Texting

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Last month, I was blessed with a free ticket to see a Broadway show called Relatively Speaking. Cool Mum was out of town with the boys, so I went by my lonesome. Not only was the price right, but so was the seat: orchestra middle right, just 5 or 6 rows from the stage.

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Women Texting by Simon Doggett via Flickr

During an intermission, a woman leaned against the stage and surveyed the audience milling around. Then I heard her declare to a bystander, who may or may not have been with her party:

“Look at everyone, just texting, texting. Stupid world! Texting, texting.”

As she made her anti-technology rant, her cheeks seemed to flush almost as red as her fuchsia shawl. She was genuinely upset. I looked around and confirmed that about half of the audience was occupied with their phones. In the middle of checking Twitter myself, I was already thinking of how to report the situation in 140 characters.

But then I recalled an event that my band played at a few years ago. I had already moved to NYC, so this was a sort of reunion. During lunch, a few of us were checking our phones, eager to divide our attention between the here and now and the elsewhere and now.

One of my bandmates called us out on it, and I’m glad that he did. It’s something that I often remember when I start wandering online instead of focusing on the present. I still need discipline in that area. Or it’s just that I’m making sure to get my money’s worth for my data plan. Yeah, that’s the ticket…

Do you text/tweet more than you should during social gatherings?

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Rita Arens 103 pts

I am really self-conscious about it because it makes some people in my family crazy. I hate it when I'm with someone and they're checking their phone at any time other than right when they arrive and right before they leave (sort of settling time, to me).

arewestillcool 5 pts

Rita Arens I've considered dropping down to a basic, no data plan on my phone to cut back on browsing, tweeting, etc. But only considered... :)

Rita Arens 103 pts

arewestillcool If I weren't reliant on it for work, I would think about it. I try to stay unplugged most of the time when I'm not working.

LucindaA 36 pts

I'm not a big technology person but I facebook and text. I think it is important to be present at events instead of lost in technology. It's rude in my opinion to pay more attention to people across the state or country than the people in the same room as you.

arewestillcool 5 pts

LucindaA Agreed! At the social media or tech events I attend, it's almost expected for you to be reporting back to your followers, but it's still a lost opportunity to connect with people in a more memorable and meaningful way.

victorias_view 1782 pts moderator

I do not text or tweet during social gatherings. I enjoy the one on one time with friends and family. It is at those times it's important to put the fun away and make eye contact with people in the room.

arewestillcool 5 pts

victorias_view I'm inspired by your discipline! It's great to hear about someone drawing the line and sticking with it.