TAKE THE TIME TO LAUGH.....AN UNCERTAIN MOMENT......DON'T LET ONE NEGATIVE EVENT DEFINE YOUR RELATIONSHP....GO HAVE FUN....

When I detect a bubble burster I simply run the other way…..They have nothing good to contribute to my life….and I don’t want them spoiling my party…..

 

WHEN GRUFF IS NICE…

There was this old gruff man who used to live in my neighborhood. One could never tell what he was thinking because he looked so …..gruff……He rarely smiled and when he did we would almost fall down because it stunned us so much to see him pleasant….

What I found out later was that this man simply felt people did not like him so he built up an exterior that kept people away….People were sort of afraid of him because of how he came across…..Later I also found out he was one of the nicest and softest people around…..Gruff people sometimes are really not so gruff….They simply don’t know how to let down their guard……When we understand this sometimes we may want to be a little kinder to a person who may not have experienced kindness in a long time….

USE TECHNOLOGY TO YOUR ADVANTAGE….

Technology can be a great thing….when it is being used for great purposes and in the right ways…..Technology can be used for wrong things as well…..When technology is being used for what is positive and life enhancing it can be one of the best things around us….
I simply love to update my computers, cell phones, and almost any of my appliances in my home to the latest models….It is fun seeing the changes that can take place in a short amount of time due to advances in technology…..Technology can help simplfy our lives in ways that save us time, keep us organized, and connect us to those who live far away….Yes, I love technology for all the wonderful that it has given to my life….

 

SIMPLY CHANGE IT….

I like the idea of CHANGE IT if we don’t like it……Why stay in a situation that is not making us happy? Sure I understand some situations we simply cannot get out of or should not get out of at the moment….but more often than not the only reason we are in those situations is because we have chosen to be…

SIMPLY CHANGE IT is an attitude of identifying what we don’t like in our lives and deciding in what ways we want to change it and then make the changes…Changes come with effort and often a great deal of thought before hand....but the alternative is to remain stuck in a situation that is less than our best.....Consider Simply Changing what you don't like into something you do like......

 

COMPLAINERS....

I simply avoid complainers…..I am not talking about someone who has had a bad day and simply wants someone to talk to. We can all have one of those days and there truly is nothing better than someone who will listen to us simply unload the frustrations we have experienced….What I am talking about are those people who make complaining a way of day to day life….Those people who simply have little positive to say about anything or anyone….Those people I simply avoid…

Complainers can be found anywhere and everywhere and simply find anyone who will listen to their endless list of woes.......Identifying complainers and avoiding them can be one of the very best things we can do......

 

DEAD ENDS….

Some places lead nowhere…..They are simply dead ends. I wonder why people give time to many dead end situations…..Relationships that have nowhere to go but down,  jobs that simply cannot go anywhere but stagnate at best, environments that simply do not offer anything at all beyond what they are getting….These are all dead ends....

Determining if something is a dead end is important….Once detected and determined as a deadend it is up to the individual as to whether they want to proceed to invest time and energy into something that is unlikely to ever give them anything they really want…..Often going the other way in life can be one of the best things we can do….Life is a highway not a dead end road unless one chooses it to be....

 

GIVE IT A LAUGH….

There are times in life we simply need to chill out and GIVE IT A LAUGH…..Life is not always serious even though at times it can seem like it is…..When we laugh we release into the air a good feeling about our lives….A good laugh is a good way to simply relieve the stress in our lives….Take the time to laugh….It will do  you good….

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