During past several months I went to many interviews and I applied to dozens of jobs in several different job fields, while one of my dear friends kept applying for nanny jobs and kept getting rejected. She, while still looking for a job, couldn’t understand why is it so hard to get a good paying nanny job, without asking herself what could be a reason for rejection. ...more
There is no way around it - there are a lot of eyes on you when you're a foster parent.The child's social worker. The child's Guardian Ad Litem. The children's biological parents. Therapists. And pretty much everyone that knows that she or he is a foster child. We have already experienced our 2! TWO! year old being overly criticized for her behavior at daycare, with the suspicion that she is watched closely because.... she's a foster child, you know. ...more
I am a nanny. I spend 10 or more hours a day with a toddler and probably 50% time I slack, nap when she does and definately not providing service I know I should.I want to be perfect nanny and amuse that kid, snuggle, play, cherish and be perfect, but sometimes I just let her play and I browse cat photos on internet.My employers have cameras. Not one, but 3. ...more
Apologies for the real time posting right now. I walked into the NICU after having a cuppa, and the doctor said, "Sydnye, we are going to shave her head." By "her" we mean my 39 day-old baby. Why you might ask, did they need to shave her head? They are all out of veins for cannulas and long lines for the morphine, muscle relaxers, antibiotics, albumin, lasix, platelets and blood, my baby had been intravenously administered. I immediately walked back out the door. I had to remove myself from the room for a few minutes.
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In her brilliant article ‘Nanny Envy – it’s a thing’ Rethabile Mashale discusses an emotion that dare not speak its name: a mother’s jealousy of her nanny. Coining the term “Nanny Envy Syndrome” Mashale talks about job sabotage by employers, where a nanny could be entrapped to make mistakes and therefore legitimately reprimanded. Nanny Envy, Mashale alleges, can even lead to fantasies of termination or actual and abrupt dismissal. Is Nanny Envy a real problem? I asked Karen Kaufman PhD, LCSW who has worked in the field of mental health for 30 years....more