As a mother of daughters, I felt that there were many more things to teach them besides the usual be nice; use your manners; be fair, honest, loyal; blahblahblah—the common things everyone teaches their children. When raising daughters, there are added lessons to be taught....more
We arrived to our retirement on May 15, 2014. Ed and I were intrepid travelors and at 11 pm at Quito Airport we began the journey of our lives. We re-started our relationship, rediscovered the excitement we had each time we were reassigned during my husband's military career and looked like something that the cat had drug in!...more
You would have thought that, by the time the nest was completely empty, I would have been ready. After all, I had three daughters head off to college before the youngest headed out. One of the first things I discovered was that, no matter how prepared I thought I was, I wasn't really prepared at all. And then, after four years, the last one out was the first one back. My first discovery? I had adjusted to an empty nest. My second discovery? It was not that easy to readjust to not having an empty nest....more
Christmas morning I was sitting in my recliner watching the action. While the opening of gifts from under the tree had taken place with a fair amount of structure, the discovery of what was stored within stockings was rather chaotic.
My mind was fragmented even more, however, because while trying to track what five other people were pulling from their stockings I was also glancing down at some shredded wrapping paper in my lap. Still taped to a remnant of the red and white paper was a note reading: "To Jams."
I did a bunch of traveling this past year. Some was obligatory, some was work related, and some was for pure fun. All of it was exciting.In addition to simply ‘running away from home’… I like to explore new places and see new things… especially in the USA. Drive, fly, bike, or walk… makes no difference to me… as long as I get to see something new....more
It's all in your perspective, don't you think?I am not a gal who is much for learning how things work, although I did once briefly consider taking a car mechanics course when my little green Ford Cortina persisted in stalling at red lights and the smug Neanderthals at the dealership insisted nothing was awry. ...more
"Since my baby left me..." Sometimes the silence in this house is deafening. I'm a rookie in the arena of Empty Nesting. I thought I was prepared but I wasn't. How did this happen? Didn't I just bring that child home yesterday? How dare he grow up and get a life! I'm used to making sure somebody is washed, dressed, fed and then carting them off somewehere. I had the best job in the world. But in May, my son graduated from school and immediately went out on his own....more