Not that kind of Christian

In case you weren’t sure, I’m a Christian.  But wait, I’m notthat kind of Christian. I’ve felt it and said it dozens of times. Have you? You know, when someone finds out you are a Christian and you feel like you must clarify, or worse, apologize? We see the pictures on Facebook. We read the stories on HuffPost. We watch the videos on YouTube. We hear the stories of people hurt deeply. ...more

Dear Salvation Army, You Don’t Deserve My Charity This Christmas

Christmas is coming, and this is the time we all think about which charities to support and how to give to the less-fortunate. Maybe you’ve seen the red kettles around and heard the jingle bells in the mall. Maybe you’ve seen the Salvation Army officers manning the kettles, smiling and thanking you for supporting the less-fortunate this Christmas. And maybe it gives your heart a warm feeling when you throw in your change and walk away, knowing that the Salvation Army typically has done good things for the homeless and poor in Toronto and other cities around the world....more

Sex: Four years later...

Let me just start off by stating that I’m a very sexual woman. I love having sex, making love, body-rocking, carpet-munching, “scissoring” or whatever you’d like to call lesbian sex – I love it all. At work, I even daydream about sex: where I’d like to have it, how many orgasms I’d love to experience, role-playing, spankings, biting, scratching…anything you can possibly think of....more

Rob Ford Is Out – For Now

I was up late last night, unable to sleep, so when I pried my eyes open this morning to blearily look at my phone, I was not expecting to see what I did. Toronto’s mayor, Rob Ford, was ousted from office today in an historical judgement that has all of Canada talking. It’s historic because these judgements aren’t handed down often....more
@Darcie I agree! I hope she does, too!more

Born this way; my belief in being born gay.

We are all born a certain way.  With a certain genetic code that decides what color hair we will have, will it be straight or curly, how tall will we be, how stout will we be.  It tells us what color eyes we will have, hazel, green, brown or blue.  Or in the case of my friend Tanja, one blue and one brown.  Actually, Tanja has one blue eye and her other eye is half brown and half blue.  It is impossible NOT to look her in the eyes.  Our DNA decides if we will be born with all of our body parts and brains fully functioning, or if we are missing a chromosome, or ...more

Storytelling on Transgender Day of Remembrance

Whether you know it or not, since 1998 November 20th has been set aside as the Transgender Day of Remembrance, a day for remembering the tragically high number of transgender men and women who have lost their lives to violence. Tonight there will be memorial vigils held in cities across the nation. Candles will be lit, and stories will be told....more
The transgendered community was vital in the repeal of DADT, many of whom served our country ...more

Sunday Morning Questions

Went to see “Lincoln” yesterday.  Such a poignant and important movie, the dialogue was absolutely intelligent, fired off with such expertise and wit that I found myself laughing at the smallest nuance of speech....more

Some People Are Gay. Get Over It!

NaBloPoMo - Day Fourteen: Something I believe in. I don't get out that much during the week, but when the weekend rolls around I'm always bursting to get out.The other day we were driving into town and a bus passed us and on the side was printed - Some people are gay. Get over it!  ...more

Wait what? Did you say you want to join the Marines???

Poor Bluebell.  She cried.  She cried as her 17 year old son The Hunter walked out the front door with a Marine Corps recruiter to go take a "practice" ASVAB test.Let me back up a bit, that is actually the middle of the story....more

Repulicrat or Demopublican....which one am I?

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