How to Make Sex Better

You're not quite sure how — or when — it happened. You used to have so much fun in bed, but suddenly your sex life just isn't what it used to be. By 11 p.m. you're more interested in The Daily Show than in a steamy session with your guy. Even when you do work up the energy, sex feels so...predictable. The excitement, even the passion, are MIA....more

My Movie Review Of Fifty Shades Of "Good God, Is This Ever Awful"

 I pride myself on not being a literary snob....more
A friend of mine said Jamie Dornan in this was a little too similar to his character in The ...more

Why Sex In The Morning Is A Good Idea In Your Marriage

So you wake up a little early and you think about just laying there enjoying the quietness. But then you look over at your spouse lying next to you and realize that you could be doing something so much more enjoyable then staring at the ceiling. So you take ACTION! Now, if this is a good description of what's happened with your spouse, then you are already reaping some benefits that you may or may not know about. However, if this is something that you would love to explore more with your spouse, well consider the 5 reasons below why it's an excellent way to start your day....more

8 Places to Have Sex Outside of Your Bedroom

The bedroom is without a doubt a good place for some lovemaking with your spouse, but it doesn't have to be the only place. Take a look at a few places that I have listed below that not only provides you and your spouse with different scenery but also provides some great fun moments! And as always my fellow couples, Keep it hot!The New House...more
loveofromance Yay! I'm glad you liked the idea! Two of the places you listed that I really want ...more

XX Orgasms: Internal vs. External

Which is better, a clitoral orgasm or a vaginal orgasm? Or, is each source of sexual pleasure equally as good as the next one? Let’s find out! ...more

University Cancels Sex Toy Event

Hey California, you’re supposed to be the cool state. But with this recent news out of Cal State LA makes us a little skeptical of your awesomeness. ...more

Dearest Readers

Dearest readers,Can we talk?I wanna tell you a secret.In my not-so-distant past, I've settled for less.I've journeyed the rugged, tar-black roads of lies about who I am.  Maybe you’ve traveled similar paths.  If so, you know the routes spewing filth and dust. The kind of dust that sticks to your skin like black tar, lingering for days, weeks, years. Whispering lies about who you are....more

Fictional Date Night with Kanye West

It’s time for another fictional date night. Valentines Day, has inspired thoughts of a delightful V-day date night with America’s Most Wanted: Kanye West. Get on the chocolate train of love, my friends, this man is virile and lusty with an insatiable appetite for love. Date Night with Kanye West ...more

How to Feel Sexy on Valentine's Day With Health Issues

Valentine's Day is approaching, and while many people plan romantic evenings, the holiday can put a lot of pressure on those of us struggling with infertility or chronic illness. The combination of medication, fluctuating hormones, and vacillating emotions often results in a complete lack of libido. So what can you do if infertility or chronic illness has left you feeling not-so-frisky this February 14th? Here are five tips to help you celebrate and enjoy even if you're not "in the mood." ...more

Back to marketing my book on sexual abuse

 My book about childsexual abuse and how you heal is Enfolded in Silence/A Story in Art of Healing from Sexual Trauma in Childhood (amazon.com). Now that I am back in the country, I am working on marketing it. I believe it is a helpful book for survivors of abuse, therapists who work with them, adolescents and those interested in getting an insdie view of sexual abuse and the healing process. ...more