Understanding sex is the first step in truly learning how to enjoy sexual experiences, and there are a few things couples need to understand about the actual acts of sex. These are especially important if sex is becoming boring, or if a couple's sex life is unsatisfying and leaving them feeling frustrated....more
If you’re thinking about having sex with a friend, be very careful, because it is not easy to preserve a friendship once you have sex. We think we can control our feelings, but it's not so simple. • If one of you becomes romantically attached as a result of the sex, the friendship will probably not survive. • If you've done it before, and you know you can keep your feelings in check, you might be successful, but what about your friend? Are you sure he or she is aware of his or her own feelings and motives? ...more
When the 50 Shades of Grey novels first started becoming popular, some of my friends who are in theBDSM scene (and have been for years) were excited that their particular brand of play was getting some national attention. But that joy quickly faded when they realized something– while housewives all over the country were getting their jollies off on these books, they weren’t portraying realistic, and, more importantly, healthy BDSM relationships....more
We're settling into a new year and remembering the vows and commitments we made to live more fulfilled lives. We often make promises to ourselves to eat better, get into better shape, and to live more stress free, but rarely do we focus on committing to having better sex when the new year rolls around. ...more
Holy Snow Days, Batman!I don't know where in the country you are but in my neck of the woods we have been stuck inside because of snow more days than not which also means the kids have had snow days more often than they have been in school.At this point, I'm pretty sure they will be in school until July to make up the days....more
There are many toys in my bags and there are bags for my toys. Over the years I have destroyed a few of my toys by not using some type of protection.Do you have the book?Have you tried it out yet?You should?Here is a good hint- it is nice to try to do some of the things see in porn movies, but if you can’t -Just try to keep it up that is the fun part.See what happened was…....more
What a topic. My friend Darcie over at Darcie The Kindred Spirit is doing her blog on a theme called “The Sessions on Sex” for the month of February.She’s asked me to guest post for her on singleness and celibacy....more
With Valentine's Day right around the corner, we’re highlighting a few of our favorite fun, informative, and sexy blogs that highlight the diversity in sexuality. Check them out and tell us if you have other blogs to share!
On this National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day, I want to talk television. Specifically, Being Mary Jane. Odd? Yes, but BET’s new primetime drama Being Mary Jane is making waves in the television world.