It's time-consuming and annoying to get an HIV test. You either have to take the time to go to your family doctor or a clinic -- and, of course, it can be embarrassing. Enter the OraQuick at-home HIV testing kit. It only takes about 20 minutes to get results. How it works, though, might be confusing....more
Many couples today use adult toys to help spice up their sex life. The problem is that many couples are very unfamiliar with their use and may find it difficult to discuss or introduce the concept. There's no shame in having an open discussion so that you both get a good idea of your thoughts on sex toys and any fears that you may have about introducing them into your relationship....more
In the proccess of aging, our labidos might tarnish. Mine has. But Mine has because of sexual abuse and promiscuity. And that is what I want to talk about. Age too is the reason, for with age, the more experience in life you have. ...more
Unfortunately, girls are taught from the cradle to coddle the male ego, not just with flattery but with genuine fear not to speak truths that could cause men to feel uncomfortable or imperfect. And nowhere is this more true than in the sack. Many a woman who feels herself a ballsy broad in her daily life finds herself in bed, afraid to say “Please do this” or “Don’t do that” for fear of confronting a man looking shocked, upset, or disappointed—which can push a button installed in us as little girls labeled Failure As A Woman....more
I am a 33 year old single mother. I started dating a young man who manages an Auto Shop about two months ago. After work this evening we met at his house and hung out for a little bit and ended up having sex. Before I allowed him to push himself into me I told him to hold on for just a sec and pulled a tampon out and threw it on the ground next to my side of the bed. (I am not on my period.) I had almost forgotten it was there or I'd have taken it out sooner....more
I am sooooooo stupid. This was proven to me this morning by Dr. Probst, our local vet. I do not hide my stupidity from anyone and this is one of the reasons I have such an interesting blog. Case in point:Everyone at my house has been sick lately. My youngest just got over a horrible ear infection, my oldest isn't feeling well, my husband missed a day of work this week due to a horrible head cold, and my poor dog Buddy had developed some symptoms which gave me concern enough to call the vet....more
Dear Dr. Romance:I saw you on the web and thought I would ask you about my attraction to my plastic surgeon. I am almost 50, and have been having procedures done for 6 months now. He is my age and married with 2 school-age children and a younger wife. I have very strong feelings for him and NO, it is not transference. I have felt that before while in therapy and this is different....more
Let's talk about sex after babies -- because it's an important topic for moms and couples. Getting on the same wavelength regarding expectations and energy can be difficult. I think the approach that Mother of Ambition took is interesting. Do you have a minimum number of times a week?