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When 'We' Starts To Feel like 'Me' If you’ve ever played doubles in tennis, you know the intricacies of what it means to be on a two-person team.  You practice strategy. You capitalize on your personal strengths. You communicate.  You make adjustments when necessary. And you’ve got each other’s back....more
my boyfriend and i have been having issues sexually and i really relate to alot of what is ...more

Dear Men...some friendly advise.

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10 Reasons To Be Thankful For Sex

Thanksgiving is the season to let your gratitude show.  There are so many things you should be grateful for this holiday season. Your health, your family and your job are probably right there at the top of your list. And they should be.But maybe this Thanksgiving we should remember to say thanks for the things we really love --  like sex. Even the Pilgrims would agree.  Sex is good.  Why should we give thanks for sex? We've come up with at least 10 reasons. Feel free to add a few of your own in the comments....more

How To Have A Romantic Thanksgiving

Ok, so we get it. Thanksgiving doesn't seem like the sexiest holiday of the year at first glance. But if you can't see the romantic elements of this holiday, then you may be overlooking some great opportunities for intimacy.It's not just that the tradition foods we enjoy on Thanksgiving are full of aphrodisiacs, it's more than that. There are moments for romance throughout the five-day holiday weekend that you shouldn't overlook. So take some time this Thanksgiving to spend some time with your significant other and see if you don't find romance over this holiday....more

HotMoviesForHer’s 3rd Annual Happy Spanksgiving Kinky Contest!

Happy Spanksgiving! Can you believe that it's really that time of year again? I swear, 2012 is flying by at double speed! With Thanksgiving rapidly approaching, we thought that it would be the perfect time to gush about all the great things we are grateful for - like I know I am so thankful that I get to spend my workday sitting next to the fantastic Ginger Leigh! I'm also quite grateful for cupcakes, cookies and anything with sugar, really. ...more

Good Girls say "No;" Bad Girls ask "When

There's an old joke that goes: Good girls say, "No;" bad girls ask, "When?" It's the classic good versus bad struggle for most men.  The whole "lady in the streets, but a freak in the bed" theory. So just what are the advantages and disadvantages of bad girls and good girls? And is it possible to somehow combine the two types into one perfect woman? First, let's look at some of the qualities classically exhibited by "Bad Girls":...more

When My Husband Came Out as a Woman

My husband came out to me as a woman this summer, three days after our five-year wedding anniversary. We were supposed to have our first date with a babysitter that night, but she bailed on us. Instead, we went out as a family for an afternoon drink at the local pub, fresh from the pool where I spent pretty much every day this summer with our four-year-old daughter. It was a damn good wedding anniversary. I think we were both feeling that our marriage had arrived at its strongest ever....more

Dear Dr Romance: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Phone Sex

Dear Dr. Romance:My girlfriend does not like phone sex. When ever I bring up the topic, she is always mad at me. I don't know; maybe it's the way her ex treated her. Please help.Dear Reader:...more

Red-Hot Romance: Reflected in You

As a long-time reader of romance novels, it's been really interesting to see how they -- and erotica in particular -- have suddenly exploded in popularity in 2012. I've always known people who have read erotica and romance, but the books are receiving media coverage as I've never seen before. I believe that many people are discovering what we long-time readers have always known -- it's the connection between the two main characters that takes center stage in these novels. I believe that it's the connection between Eva and Gideon that has skyrocketed the second book in Sylvia Day's Crossfire series, Reflected in You, to the top of people's reading piles and to the number one spot on the New York Times trade paperback bestsellers list. ...more
I love this series! Quite truthfully I have enjoyed these more than Fifty Shades so far. There ...more

Dear Richard Mourdock: Keep Your Superstitious Hocus Pocus Off My Body Nov 1

I’ve been meaning to write this for the past week, but have been moving into a new place and haven’t had time. Needless to say, Richard Mourdock, the combination of religion and government, and bodily autonomy have been pretty much non-stop on my mind. Elections are coming up on the 6th and I think it is important that we all have the information we need to make informed choices....more