Intimate Partner Abuse vs. BDSM: Kink Only Hurts When You Want It To

October is Domestic/Intimate Partner Awareness Month...more
Safe, sane, and consensual. Without ALL THREE of these aspects, an individual /couple is not ...more

Self-Control: Who’s in Charge Here?

Want to be powerful in your relationships? Learn emotional self-control. Learning to take charge of your emotions means you can’t be “set off” by someone else. You control your reactions, they don’t control you. When you’re too reactive to your partner, he or she can easily draw you into a fight that stops you both from focusing on fixing the problem. ...more

Dear Dr. Romance: Why Can't I Spark the Interest of a Woman?

Dear Dr. Romance:...more

This week the clitoris came out of the closet

The actual size and shape of the human clitoris burst onto cultural consciousness this week! I am celebrating the week that the true anatomy of the woman's sexual pleasure organ made mainstream news and culture! Female orgasm is possible in ALL reproductive aged women because we all have this large erectile clitoral organ....more

My Husband Only Wants Sex Once a Week; I Want More!

Reader "I Want More" writes,...more
Dr E Your book sounds fab!!more

Should the Wife or Husband Plan Date Night?

I have heard wives say he doesn’t put any effort in why should I.  I have heard husbands say if she wants to go on a date she should plan one and tell me where to be. I want to encourage you to see the value of just spending time together.  Throw out all expectations!  I heard a statement that is very true “Expectations ruin relationships.”  When we expect what the other person in any relationship should or should not do and then it doesn’t happen that way we are disappointed, discouraged and have thoughts of giving up. Sometime...more

How I Came to Domme

Ever had one of those experiences that changes your life? Gives you confidence, strength, and ultimate power? I have and [Aristotle] gave that to me. He handed it to me on a damn silver platter the moment he said he wanted to submit to me.For years, I have known that I have a dominant side in me. I've dabbled in topping and in masturbation control. It is a thrill that I feel deep inside when a man begs for my permission, generosity or mercy.But this is what I've wanted; what I've craved....more

Wired, The By-product Theory of Female Orgasm, A Twin Study, and Scientists Being Thick

Well, Wired, maybe you should stick to reviewing phone apps and stay out of science articles. I just don't think it's your forte....more

Best Of Times; Worst Of Times: Sex & Health In Marriage

Marriage today can sometimes be the 2014 equivalent of the opening paragraph in a 'Tale of Two Cities'. “It was the best of times it was the worst of times,” Isn't that a line right from my vows?“It was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness,” Often what follows after the ‘I do's’.“It was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity,” Incredulity means the inability to believe something and most husbands seem unable to believe that their wives really only spent £20 on those new shoes....more

How Our F'd Up Sexual Culture Slowly Breaks Us Ladies And Our 'Gasms

So, as you know, the movie I made and I are both proponents of clearly understanding that the clitoris and not the vagina is responsible for ladygasms, and we're also a proponent for ladies jiggling their own junk in order to get off - either while alone or with a partner. I think a cultural mentality that took those two things into consideration could do very well for the state of female sexuality in general....more
Trisha_AnCMovies Dr E Yeah! I look forward to viewing it!more