Let's Talk About Sex, Baby!

Salt N Pepa aside...I knew this day was coming, I just didn’t know when.  So when last week my precocious official fourth grade daughter piped up from the back seat, “Mom, have you heard about 50 shades of gray?  Sandy says it has lots of SEX in it.  What IS sex, anyway?,” I clutched my steering wheel a little harder, took a deep breath and dove right in. ...more


After a night of passion, I awoke to Darryl fully dressed and heading out the door, he was going to leave without saying goodbye. Apparently he has a meeting. As I lean over the bed to collect my blue silk panties and my cut-out dress I notice a cheque for $500, proving once again that love really does have a price. -anonymous X ...more
OH my!  I wish someone would sweeten my bank account like that! It's not like they can't afford ...more

The Price for Love

I spent about a months time as an Escort, yes I know, scandalous right? Not really. A lot of people don't know that there is a difference between escorting and prostitution. ...more

Women Should Enjoy Having Orgasms as Much as Men Do

Double standards with dating are everywhere and now there's news published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine that claims women don't really have orgasms but instead squirt out a little pee.  I'm here to debunk that.For women, orgasms don't come as easy as with men, but women can and should enjoy them as much as men do.Orgasms Can Relieve PainThere is some evidence that suggests orgasms can relieve all kinds of pain, including pain from arthritis, pain after surgery and even pain during childbirth....more
Okay, I am still totally stopped that the Journal of Sexual Medicine published news that said ...more

Girlfriend, it's time to replace those gnarly period panties.

Remember that time you were in dance class, or on the bus, or in a meeting, or at the lake, or getting out of bed, or pretty much anywhere, and suddenly you became aware that wads of cotton and diaper-like liners are often no match for Mother Nature?...more

How Long Should You Wait to Have Sex?

First of all, I’m going to eliminate any religious considerations from the equation. If you want to hold out for religious and/or cultural reasons, then I honestly believe that should be respected. With that out of the way, I know that this isn’t exactly a groundbreaking question, and it’s been widely covered in many books, magazines, and movies....more

4 Tips to Avoid Falling in Love With a Jerk

As I was swimming last week, a young couple came into the pool. Instead of doing laps or walking, like most of the gym members, they were just enjoying themselves. He started splashing her, and she said “Joey, stop it!” but she said it in a placating, whiney voice. He just kept splashing her. I bit my tongue, because what I wanted to do was tell her she was teaching him to ignore her and push past her boundaries....more
It's my huge problem....I always fall in love with jerks!( Even via internet on hinge ...more

Best Flavored Lubes

Wondering which flavored lubes are the best? ...more

The Evolution of a Crush Slut

You know that one person at that one party? I like them. That one guy that I randomly took a shower with? Yeah, I like him. That cute girl dating a friend of mine? I like her, too. And that guy?! That guy with the really great hair? Oh yeah, I really like him....more