Once A Cheater? 5 Types Of Cheaters Revealed

We’ve all heard the saying, once a cheater, always a cheater… but is there truth in this rather cliché allegation?  Or are we condemning innocent men worldwide, who may have screwed up once or twice, to be bound in that big box of infidelity?  Obviously all men aren’t the same… or are they? ...more

I Want To Get Married But He Doesn't

I'm in love with a man who doesn't want to marry me. He's a wonderful person and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He's dedicated to making our relationship work. But marriage? Not so much. ...more

Infidelity - Is Ignorance Bliss?

The hacking of the Ashley Madison website and posting of that information on the internet for all to access raised a question for many married persons – “Is my spouse cheating on me?”  When I read about persons searching this informational trove I thought about that game we played as adolescents.   The game where we pulled the petals of a flower as we recited “He loves me……He loves me not” hoping that it would end on the right choice.    I know that persons are hoping that they do not find the name and information of their spouse among the Ashley Madison inform...more

How To Survive The Ashley Madison Hack, From Someone Who's Been There

I'll be honest, when the first reports that the group that hacked Ashley Madison did, in fact, release the user data, I was downright giddy. Having watched my own marriage fall victim to the site and it's purpose (though, honestly, it would have fallen sooner or later as obviously things were not as fixed as I believed and no website or lack thereof was going to replace the work needed from both parties) I felt slightly vindicated all these years later. ...more

Challenge: Praise Your Sweetie for A Month Via Texts!

My husband and I celebrated our third wedding anniversary just a couple weeks ago and we will be celebrating our 10-year dating anniversary this upcoming fall. We have had a wonderful, yet chaotic life together and I wanted to make sure that my husband knew how much I loved and appreciated him after all this time....more

Going from DINKs to parents

Dual-Income, No Kids. ...more

How To Survive Your Husbands Trip To Vegas

So your husband is going to Las Vegas. How wonderful for him. {Did that come across as sarcastic? Because that's what I was going for - sarcasm - which I will deal with promptly in point #1 so please don't hold it against me!} I slept alone last week as the Vegas strip was blessed with the footsteps of my other half. He flew down to join his friends who were competing in a pool tournament....more

Love With All Your Heart

There aren’t a lot of things in life that are free. Things don’t cost anything and that we have an abundant amount of and won’t deplete. Thank goodness, love is one of them.Love with all your heart.Our hearts were made to love.There isn’t a finite source of love. You won’t run out of it and no matter how many people you love, there's always room for more.You can open your heart and love those around you, and still have room to let others in. I promise....more

Dear Dr. Romance: Which one should he choose?

Dear Dr. Romance :A man loves woman #1 but he was unhappy with the relationship for some reason. He was stressed financially. He was supporting his family. He has 2 children with woman #1 all he wants is the best for them and them to be happy and have a family. He has been going out, hanging out with friends; and says he's doing this to relieve his stress at home....more