9 hours ago
 "Were those vaginal babies?" No joke.  This was an actual question regarding my tiny newborn twins.  
1 day ago
If you are single and want to change that there are ways you can increase the chances of meeting somebody special. These tactics might not be the most comfortable for everyone but your comfort level has left you single. Going outside of your comfort zone allows you to meet new people and even find out things about yourself.  Online dating is NOT for everyone even though there does seem to be a dating site for nearly every interest.
1 day ago
When you get away with your love, where do you go? I think Sonoma is the perfect weekend getaway sans kids. It's also a great place to meet up with friends.
1 day ago
You and your partner have always enjoyed going out and having a good time. You even have a favorite neighborhood pub that you regularly hang out in with friends. Lately, though, it seems like your partner has changed their mind about what constitutes “a good time.” It’s not just a few beers and a couple of games of pool anymore.
2 days ago
When we marry we expect it to be for the rest of our lives, but the reality is few couples make it happily ever after. For most of us, unhappiness settles in and makes us question what comes next. Unfortunately, many women simply resign in front of these problems and carry on living, despite they are unhappy. Men, on the other hand, are more quick to action and get a divorce as soon as they see a sign that things are not working anymore. Many women are scared of divorce, which still carries a stigma.
3 days ago
It's more common for fat-positive writers and activists — particularly women — to be coupled. There's Lindy West and Ahamefule J. Oluo. Kate Harding and Al Iverson. Lesley Kinzel and Dennis Scimeca.In fact, it was Kate Harding’s blog post “On Dumb Luck” which sparked my observation:
3 days ago
As  a married woman who will be celebrating her 25th wedding anniversary next year, I often wonder if soul-mates truly exist. Don't get me wrong I do love and care for my husband.
4 days ago
The common wisdom is that a person needs four hugs a day for survival, eight for maintenance, and twelve for growth. I doubt that this is confirmed by any scientific studies and I doubt that it is true. If it were, there would be millions of people on Earth who would not survive.
4 days ago
Trust takes forever to build and only a second to destroy… ~Meiqua Yushundra~
5 days ago
The fact is that many people are difficult to purchase gifts for and a gift card just isn’t personal enough. Different people have different tastes with some just wanting a low key birthday and others want a big deal made of it. Luckily there are gifts for everyone including those who say they want nothing. There will always be that one special thing that can take on even the most negative people about their birthday. This will take time in a relationship to figure this out but the following are some great gifts for your significant other.
5 days ago
Nagging: repetitive inquiring/asking/reminding, with a tone of escalating irritability. Why, oh why, do we nag?!  It annoys the nag-ee. It actually even annoys the nagger! Plus, nagging doesn't work. Even if it elicits the desired results (i.e., the thing we're rattling on about actually gets accomplished), it's with a certain weary spitefulness. So why are we compelled to do it? And why is it so difficult to stop?
1 week ago
The most important thing to understand is everything in moderation is the best format to follow. This applies to watch porn too.  Porn can be an effective addition to you sex life, role-playing and fantasy play, to erotic storytelling. Sex is one of the best therapies for couples and watching porn adds zing to life. For many couples, porn can be a positive thing. It can be an igniter, to perk up your sexual interest, initiator, an instigator or to shake things up, and make it more exciting.
1 week ago
 Are you a good catch who is single or do you know a QUALITY woman who is looking for true love?  If so, I would love to hear from you.
1 week ago
Everyone had expected me to be upset by my divorce- perhaps a little angry, definitely hurt. I was all of those things, but my reasoning actually just came to me. It bulldozed its way into my brain and then sat there: horrible, awful, and unpleasant, just waiting for me to address it. So here it goes…Why I’m PissedI wasn’t on the search for my future mate by any means. At 23 years old, as can be imagined, I had a list a mile long: smart, funny, good-looking… (the classics). Also, I was enjoying the single life.
1 week ago
Your first date can prove to be like your first interview. You will feel nervous about it, but don’t let your nervousness make you commit errors at such an important occasion. The thing that could give you some confidence here is that the person you are meeting might also be nervous just like you. With both the people in a similar state of mind, you should not be worried too much about your situation. No matter how much control you have on your nerves, it is still better to get some advice before your date so you can ace it.
1 week ago
“...it is ironic that the child, the embodiment of a couple’s love, so often threatens the very romance that brought that child into being. ”— Esther Perel, "Mating in Captivity" Kids, you know?
1 week ago
You live in the era of communication. Today, you can talk to people on the other side of the world as though they were sitting in front of you. In fact, scientists have sent missions toward the rim of the solar system. They have received the new and updated pictures of Pluto, giving scientists a deeper understanding of this dwarf planet and the world a completely new view in the space. Now that the boundaries of the countries and regions have been removed, it has now become possible to fall in love with someone who lives in a different country.
1 week ago
There are very few people who can take dating easy and go on several dates without any signs of nervousness. In most cases, you have to be nervous because you are not doing this activity just to pass your time. However, you don’t have to let this nervousness destroy your dating experience. Whether it’s women or men, when they go on a date they have several assumptions in their minds. It is often these assumptions that cause them to act how they should not act. Women can show more signs of nervousness and therefore end up being more prone to making mistakes.
1 week ago
It’s my birthday and I’m another year older and like every year before this one, I woke up exactly the same. It’s a sensation which didn’t change with age; the feeling of waking up on your birthday to absolutely nothing extraordinary.
1 week ago
Love an immortal feeling spice it up by giving these cute small gifts to your loved ones . Totally affordable and fun  
1 week ago
Okay, I get it. Feeling lonely sucks! However, if the decision to stick with some one who treats you horribly or at the very least, does not treat you the way you should be treated (not everyone gets waited on and I understand that)- YOU HAVE MADE THE WRONG DECISION.
1 week ago
Practicing the lost art of loving thyself tonight. It’s incredible to me how the people we allow to get closest to our souls are the ones who are capable of the most damage, and at times choose to exact that punishment. The hurt runs deep and for some of us, never leaves. Do you think they know that? Worse question: what do you do if they know that and don’t care?
1 week ago
The Ikea catalog came in the mail today and there’s not another catalog which elicits such a thrill.
1 week ago
I often find myself speaking with women, both clients and friends, who are wondering what to do about conflict in their intimate relationships.  “All we do is fight,” I’ll hear, or “he’s just a selfish jerk,” or other unhappy commentaries about what’s happening in the relationship. When I ask why they stay in it, the most common answer I get is, “Well, when it’s good, it’s really good, but when it’s bad, it’s REALLY bad.”
2 weeks ago
My parent’s wedding song was the Theme to Love Story. To this day, the iconic melancholy melody punches me in the gut, squeezes my heart, and puts a lump in my throat - and it’s not because of a nostalgic longing for my parents loving marriage.
2 weeks ago
Ladies: On a scale of 1 to 10, (with 10 being very high), how important is it to feel desired and wanted by your husband? And yes, I mean sexually.  After you've thought about your answer, at what point do you think it's a deal-breaker if your husband continuously makes you feel undesirable in the bedroom? 
2 weeks ago
I was doing breakfast dishes, and as the plates cleared out of the sink I saw that the plug was not in the drain to catch the goobers, and they were down in the drain, waiting for me to fish them out.  Grossed out, annoyance flashed through my mind and I found myself mentally blaming my husband for this transgression.  The problem with this scenario is that my husband has been out-of-town for 2 days.  It was I who had transgressed, there's no denying it, but my knee jerk reaction was anger at my spouse.  When I reflected on the ripple effect this must have on our marriag
2 weeks ago
I thought I had gotten rid of all of his-and our- Christmas ornaments. While listening to what should have been upbeat holiday music on Pandora, however, Canon in D started playing. My wedding processional. Probably most people’s wedding processional, and definitely NOT what I thought of as a Christmas carol.
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