What's holding you back!

We often wonder why our goals aren't reached, why we seem like the hamster on a wheel in a cage, always running and never getting anywhere. We look for a reason, someone or something to blame for our not achieving our intention. There has to be a reason we keep saying over and over. Embrace a different concept, be free of negativity, accept at this time that there is no reason, the situation just is. Leave the whys behind that waste your energy and power trying to figure out the answer when there is none....more

More time is not the answer...

My toenails need to be cut. My legs needs a shave. My eyebrows need waxing. My hair needs a trim. I failed to shower yesterday, and I'm beginning to think my body's natural grease production may be just what my humidity-induced frizzy hair wants. I need more time. I need to take time....more

5 Steps to Unmasking Yourself

We hear all the time how important it is to live an authentic life – to live your values and true to yourself, despite what others say. Many of us read these self-help books and blogs, telling us to stop living up to other’s expectations and to find ourselves.It sounds all well and good, but easier said than done, right?...more



How do you edit life - when you're a writer?

  It’s not the writing that’s difficult, it’s the deleting. Every one of us has a story that defies the rules of logic and sanity. Every character from my friend with the four cats that hiss at me and walk across her kitchen table, to Dan with the dimples and the plaid...more

Blogging Manifesto for Today's Content Creators: Play Big or Go Home

Although I've been blogging now for about 6 years,  until about 6 months ago I had stopped taking it seriously for about 3 years.  It wasn't that I didn't still enjoy writing, it's that I was struggling to find a way to translate my mom blog into a money-making venture....more
Writewhatmatters Thanks!more

I almost left nursing because of one patient, but then...

Start of shift, life is grand. Fully staffed and no super sick patients, then it goes to pot. I am told by an angry family member that I should go work in fast food because I am black hearted and soulless. All because I spoke up for patient safety. This was after being held up for two hours by a distraught family member... maybe its time for a job change....more

I Just Need 21 Days For This to Stick (Beyoncé Told Me So)

It was our great philosopher in a bowler hat, Boy George, who said it best when he sang: Time won't give me time. It's one of those hard truths working mothers (hell, all mothers!) know too well. And for us WAHMs ... listen. The juggle is real. ...more
Girl, you are hilarious, but I'm thinking that... these tips may actually work!more

Sometimes Being Thankful Is Hard

Don’t we all know those days? The ones that are filled to the brim with hardness or sadness or sickness or all of these? The ones where we know in our hearts that we should be thankful, but our minds say, “no, no, NO”? The ones that make us want to hide in the floors of our closets and never come out? Oh, those days. ...more

I Thought My Life Would Be Different

      I thought my life would be..different. Different from what it is now. I thought my life would be different. Doesn't everybody? Sometimes when I look around at people I know, I see their life playing out exactly how they had imagined. They may have encountered a twist or two but even their twists are more like little curves in the road....more
careboxgirl that's so true. You never know what people are dealing with. I guess some of our ...more