Dating a Man Who Earns Less Than You Do

What are the pitfalls of dating a man who makes significantly less money than you do?...more

I'm Thankful I'm Single.

This year, I'm thankful I'm singleAF. And you should be too. Here's why....more

'No' is a Complete Sentence: So why won't some men accept it?

I've been trying to take a break from my usual snark and sarcastic writing style on the blog this week and trying to keep things positive and respectful.  Given the current state of affairs in our world and also the upcoming holiday (ya know, the one where we’re supposed to be thankful?) I just felt it was appropriate to ease up on humor, silliness and even general bitching or complaining.Ha.  Til now.  ...more

You Lied to Me, Disney!

...And they lived happily ever after.The end of every fairy tale ever.But what if we got to see the stories after the wedding? What if we got to see Prince Charming allergic to Snow White's animal friends? Or Sleeping Beauty sleeping all day while Prince Philip went riding around the forest?...more

Do Your Exes Boomerang Like Mine?

When I write a post in real time versus years later with the keen eye of hind sight, it’s a whole other like out of body experience, dude. Just saying. Because I’m telling you as it happens and really? Who can make this fucking shit up? #notmemanSo. This is my rumination about the approximate 80% return rate of men I’ve spent any amount of time with as well as the final installation of my Danny 3.0 tryptic. Oh, how apropos....more

I'm a Single Woman in My Thirties - Am I A Cliche?

I've been angry, recently. And sad. Yes... I'm sad.  Because I'm lonely. I'm thirty-four and single. And I'm not quite sure how I got here....more
I'm 38 and I am still single, and yes, I went through the same experience. The first thing I did ...more

8 Ways You Can Keep Dating Your Spouse

When you’ve been married to someone or dating them for a significant amount of time, your marriage might start to lose some of that spark. It certainly doesn’t mean you love each other any less, but it might mean that your marriage needs a bit of a reboot....more

The REAL Reason Sex-Too-Soon Kills His Desire To Pursue You

You fall in love quickly. A man needs time to develop feelings woman....more

The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need: Be a Book Worm

I'll state upfront that I am biased. I am an English Lit major. Talk to me about Homer and I will gladly be down for ordering another round (or two). I'm drawn to used book stores like a zombie to fresh brain meat. But read one of my favorite books to understand my beliefs better? I've just handed you my heart on a platter!...more

The Real Reason Why You Always Struggle With Dating and Love

Like any other areas of life, in order to solve your love life problem, you need to understand the causes. While it could be that there are fundamental aspects that you should improve as an individual, most of the time the issue lies at your mindset and approach to dating. This is especially applicable to cases where people are completely desirable on paper yet find themselves again and again struggling with dating, leading to frustration and self-doubt.Here’s the answers to all the why’s: You don’t know what you want ...more