I’ve learned through many experiences that I’m not really what guys want. Guys have liked me but not enough, always teetering on the “friends or more than friends” fence, but always settling back on the friend side. Except, on two important and monumental occasions, not really the friend’s side…still on the fence but leaning toward the “more than” side. As if it were truly the friend’s side, than that friend who did not return the love (aka the non returner) would put distance between that friend (aka the unrequited) out of care and concern....more
Online dating is now the most popular way to meet new people. What once had the stigma of being questionable or even scary, is now the norm. If you are dating, or looking to date, chances are very high you are online, or thinking you should be. ...more
I am so happy fall is here! The leaves are turning beautiful shades of red and orange, gracefully blowing in the air. We have been enjoying beautiful hikes in the woods with our dogs. I just love couple stuff like that.
I always remember as a child I would go on walks with my grandmother everyday and we would collect leaves to dry. We would save the best ones to make collages with them in front of the fireplace.
We just lit the first fire, of many, in our wood burning stove. My favorite way to heat a home....more
I am totally stuffed right now and so happy. My boyfriend ordered my favorite food tonight Chinese take-out what a great man. He totally turned me on to Egg Foo Young, and it is like the best thing ever!
I love how he is always surprising me with flowers, cute little gifts, an ipod with dancing idog, and the list goes on. He is just the best man I have ever dated.
Guys my age would never treat me like a princess like he does. They would not even know where to start. It is every girl's fantasy to be treated like a princess from the man that you are going to marry....more
According to studies, over 50% of women and almost half of men reported using a vibrator. Twenty five percent of women reported using a vibrator within the last month. Owning a vibrator or sex toy does not mean you are a sex freak, pervert,slut, or nymphomaniac. Your neighbor, doctor, friends, and family could very well have a vibrator or sex toy in his or her collection....more
Why is it that boys my age do not work any more?I live in a college town and have for about the past 8 years (WOW time flies). Over the past couple years I have noticed all the girls my age working and the boys living (mooching) off of their girlfriends. This is so wrong. What happened here? OMG! My boyfriend doesn't even want me to work. Much less pay his bills and take him out on dates....more
So lately I have noticed that there is a lot of talk about dating older men. I see more nevative articles warning girls of dating an older man. Why is it older men that are portrayed to be so harmful? What did they do to get this bad rap?...more
Allow me to introduce myself. My name is Erin, and I am a beloved daughter of heavenly parents, and, as such, I have a divine nature and destiny. I am a woman, with an individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose. My identity, purpose, and destiny will be quite different from yours. It is unique to me and designed by my Creator. There are no flaws in His plan. It is my duty as an obedient and loving daughter to accept and find joy in His plan for me.
Suddenly, I was struck with a realization. Underneath all the elaborate dialogue about erotic obstruction and over-intellectualized star-crossed motif was a simple truth: I'm afraid. I counted previous relationships, most of them with people who were unattainable, who enabled an affair with a natural end. And those that were attainable still found their end somehow, bludgeoned into the pattern I had created, the pattern that made sense to me. The pattern of great intense love with a clear, definite, explosive end. Painful, yes. But their predictability gave me a sense of control.