Twelve Relationship Truths since it's 12/12/12

*disclaimer - no I'm not a relationship expert. Nor do I pretend to be. But I've been around and seen some things and have some thoughts. Love 'em or leave 'em. ~The Management ...more

Words I couldn't let go of

I'm 31 years old. I have three children. All in which have different fathers. In 2007 I had just had my second child ( technically 2006 the end). My sons father and I had tried to make it work. After all he was a product of a broken home, and my 3 year old daughter already was so I wanted to give him a better family life then my daughter had. It just wasn't working out. I worked as a massage therapist. In an office and on the side. I worked late nights and very long days. While working outside the office I took a new client....more

Dear Dr. Romance: Why Do I Always Have Sex on the First Date?

Dear Dr. Romance:I'm trying to find out why I always have sex on the first date. This is not to say that I have sex with every girl I date, or even that every girl I've gone out with has even been interested in me. It is simply to say that the overwhelming majority of my "situations" have been one date situations, for whatever reason and on the occasions that the woman is interested in me, we usually end up having sex....more


A fellow Plus Size Primadonna on her quest for Big Curvy Love revealed she wouldn’t date a man if he was a vegetarian or owned a cat. Her rationale for these ‘deal breakers’ was that she didn’t want to be chomping on a steak while her man picked at a grassy salad. Fair enough. Plus she was generally suspicious of cats and therefore anyone who owned one thus also ruling future cat-loving suitors out of her dating pool. She ended up marrying a dog-loving carnivore who also happened to be extremely good looking and minted. Well played curvy girl!...more


 PLUS SIZE DATING ONLINEOn my quest to find Big Curvy Love I’ve thrown my plus-size panties in the ring and begun online dating. Trawling through profiles of my future lovers is fun but building my own profile is like plucking  that ingrown hair after a Brazilian. Here’s what I’ve learned so far about plus-size online dating. Hump #1-  The BODY TYPE ...more


PLUS SIZE DATING ONLINE - THE FIRST DATEIf you've met someone online then the first in-person meeting is always scary with the mind chatter running those familiar lines 'what if he doesn't like me in person' or 'what if I don't look as good as my picture?'Sure its possible but remember it works both ways....more

Geez, Another Holiday Party...By Myself

Yep.  The Big Holiday Season is almost upon us.  And there will be lots of parties for people of every ilk.  Work parties, client parties, Christmas parties, Hannukah gatherings, Kwanzaa celebrations, New Year's Eve (and Day) festivities, community events...  No matter who you are, you'll probably be expected to attend more than one....more

10 Dates, 10 Men

I'm going to do something I've been talking myself into for months, but have been loathe to commit to. Here's what it looks like in my head. I'm going to start dating. I'm going to start dating...more

Dear Dr. Romance: I Don't Want to Leave without Saying Goodbye

Dear Dr. Romance,I have developed feelings for my co-worker and during the past several months, we have had very brief encounters that were limited to greetings. Due to the small work place, I could not go and talk comfortably to him without eliciting attentions/rumors....more

The Extra Wheel

Urban Dictionary Definition #1 of Third Wheel: One who deters the socialization of a couple, perhaps when being invited out of pity or through a feeling of duty. And Numero 6: That one person that does not belong. Just last week I learned I didn't belong when it came to a birthday celebration dinner for one of my closest friends....more