Think You're Ready to Love Again? Answer These 6 Questions Before Taking the Leap

Maybe you've taken a break from dating for a while because you've been hurt. Maybe you're a recovering bum magnet who has taken the necessary time to heal your wounds so that you can be the best version of yourself when you begin a new relationship. Whatever your situation, your time off must include some time to assess whether you're really get back in the game....more

Mirror, Mirror on the Wall...

Its straight out of Twilight or a show on HBO. Just like the sexy vampire of fiction, the narcissist is alluring, devastatingly attractive, and deadly.  Cue scary music. You spot him across the crowded room. He’s hard to miss because he’s good looking and a bevy of beautiful women surround him, hanging on his every word. You work up the courage to approach him and you barely have to speak a word before he takes the lead in the conversation, letting you know of his many accomplishments and world experiences....more


Frustration arises as I talk to you. Blood boiling, pulse racing, fingers trembling—all from you. You make me so mad sometimes. And I can’t even help it. I don’t want to get mad. I don’t want to get annoyed. I don’t wantto get frustrated.  But you have a special way of making me feel that way sometimes. It’s like in some way you know the exact trigger to pull to take me from 0 to 60....more

Shaken by the Past

Yesterday, I ran into someone I used to date. Physically, I kept it moving—didn’t pause, didn’t look back, didn’t miss a step. But mentally, I was a bit rattled.  I didn’t expect to see him; I hadn’t seen him since we had stopped talking…...more

Profile No-No's


The Friend Zone

So I sucked it up, bit the bullet, took one in the nuts (figuratively, of course), and said (to my cats and the voices in my head), if The Dark One isn't interested in me as more than a friend, fuck him.  Well, sadly, no, not fuck him.  I would very much like to fuck him.  All that long black hair flying around....his, not mine...yummmm... Er, sorry. ...more

Women read your emotion

04Sep 2011 0 Comments Women read your emotion...more

Back. The Fuck. Up. (part 1)

The following is a scene from the biographical movie of my life, working title: Back. The Fuck. Up. ...more

Sisterly Advice: Do you Have a Hovering Ex? Time to shoo them away.

{Hi Ladies - From all the emails I've gotten on this subject lately, thought this could help ♥}Hovering Exes are normally someone who breaks up with you, but won't make a clean break entirely (still texts, explains his constant presence by saying "your friends" (YUCK), posts on your wall, you know the drill...)...more

Women keep dating journals

 Writing in journals is a girl thing – an activity hardwired into their DNA somewhere back in middle school – jotting down page after page of gossip about other girls and boys, boys, boys....more