"Singularity" - Do you have a fear of being alone? Take heart.

What are you most afraid of? You know what I’m talking about – the one fear that grips you so tightly, you lose your breath. Yes, that one…. being ALONE. Lately, all I’ve heard about is this person or that person is willing to do anything and everything to not be alone. Person A is moving to the Carolinas with her unfaithful boyfriend so that she’s not alone. Person B took back her unreliable techie husband, but has a boyfriend on the side so that she certainly won’t be alone. Person C would rather stay in a status quo relationship than to be alive…. and alone....more

The Tale of Hope

With all the bad dates and even worse pick up lines having hope can seem silly.  But, I have hope... I have hope that one day my "Ex" and I will get back together and I also have hope that I may find someone even better for me than him if that doesn't pan out.  There is someone that intrigues me.  I wouldn't say that I like him, I'm just curious.  He doesn't know and that is okay.  I think it is almost better that ...more

How To Mend Your Broken Heart

by Gina Simmons, Ph.D....more

Dating Adventures at Mid-Life: What the *&^% Am I Doing on Match.Com?

So, my tentative New Year's resolution is to get my hands out of my own pants and down someone else's. I say tentative because I have been down the slippery path of online dating before - and I know what I'm in for. Nonetheless, I have decided to dust off my old Match.com profile and try this cyberdating thing once again. Maybe. ...more

How To Date An Old Guy

How to Date an Old GuyDating an older man is a lot like your first kiss; icky at first yet gets better with practice. You will needA positive attitudeMature tasteYouthful exuberanceStep 1: Practice sleeping patternsIn bed by 10, up by dawn – common protocol for men over 40.FACT: The early bird catches the worm. Step 2: Read the paper...more

How Sweet It Is, Valentines Gifts With Meaning

Happy Hump Day Mamas! Kimberly is on her way to Boston to meet with the always amazing leaders at Room to Grow who make everyday a sweet one for some very special moms and expecting moms in Boston.  I am at home giving Kimberly a hand with a project on one of her other jobs, like children, she can't just have one.  Or three.  Or four;) We should all be blessed with that much energy!!!! How do you do it all Kim??...more

Six Ways to Green Your Valentine's Day

Here at Big Green Purse, we love love. So naturally, Valentine's Day is one of our favorite days of the year....more

What Does it Mean if he Doesn't Call?

Q: I went on a date with this guy and I thought it went well...It's been a few days and he hasn't called me. He should have called by now right? So annoying........ Ah yes, an oldie but goodie. The age old question, "What does it mean if he doesn't call after a date?" Well sadly doll, it means exactly what you think it means...he doesn't want to talk to you. And hey it's okay!...more

Real Men Don't Drink

I am not suggesting that real men shouldn’t drink alcohol at all.  But, I am suggesting that there are certain beverages that they shouldn’t drink....more

Honestly this post is a bit of a joke. I was laughing as I wrote it (true story). If you visit ...more

Why Won't you Date Black Women!?

I love black women. Actually, I love women period, especially ones with more skin pigmentation. ...more