How to Tell if a Girl is a Feminist

  This is, apparently, a hugely asked question on the Internet. Well, never fear you poor terrified boys, I will help you spot every one of those damned feminists a mile away! ...more

Finding Your Way Back After Heartbreak

The thing with memories is you can warp them to satisfy your heart and soul.  What I mean by that is you can remember what you would like to remember and forget what you would like to forget.  Though, lately I have been remembering all the memories I would like to forget and it has been screwing with my ability to move forward. ...more
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12 Things I've Learned From Interracial Dating

I find people completely fascinating—basically, I would love to sit everyone down and hear their life story. This has led to me date a wide variety of people—from a guy with a neck tattoo and a carpet cleaning business, to a high-strung finance bro, to an awkward computer programmer. I am also an equal opportunity dater: about half of the people I’ve dated are not white (and a number of those who are come from other countries). I don’t have any kind of specific preference or actively seek out multicultural people, it’s just what has arisen from my experiences in our diverse world....more
I agree with all these points, especially the first point - 1. The vast majority of the time, ...more

Are You Dating a 'Mama's Boy'?

I recently watched Think Like a Man Too, a sequel to a popular romantic comedy based on the advice book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man....more
Great read. My only son and I are uber close and now at 25 he's in his first serious ...more

What Is The Thing With Feathers.

I want to talk about Hope.  I want to talk about Hope because right now, I’m completely enmeshed in a default false intimacy sitch – I KNOW! - and Hope is my new best friend. Well, one hour she is then one hour she’s my frenemy, then we give each other facials then I’m all like: “bitch, don’t even...” and then she’s all like: “bitch, I’m not leaving…” . Yeah. Fuck. #Sigh. ...more

Ask Yourself These 4 Questions Before You Turn Down A Second Date

Have you ever gone on a date that went well enough, but you weren’t sure if you should go on a second date?It happens to the best of us. We met someone, had a decent date, but there was no spark. Nothing bad happened on the date so there are no major complaints or red flags, but the lack of spark left you undecided about a second date.When we romanticize love, we think about that first moment when you meet someone and your heart skips a beat. You feel the butterflies in your stomach and you automatically just know. As great as love at first sight seems, it isn’t real....more
adelewishnot so glad the advice was right on time for you. You're right, fireworks fizzle, and ...more

Passion vs Parenting - the single parent's rite of passion

After the stress of divorce, you desere to have some fun. You also deserve to love and be loved and to experience an adult relationship that meets your needs. Finding the balance between adult needs, parental obligations and your child's feelings is a single parent's rite of passage.Read our tips for managing being a single parent and falling (back) in love.With love,Rachel & Trisha, Co-Creators, SteppingThrough...more

Why Tinder Fails Me

I was first introduced to Tinder through a twenty something girl I met at a bar. She was all done up, with red lipstick (a staple for a twenty something girl) and overly bleached hair. Physically she was very superficial, like most young girls who think they need to cover their identities with lots of makeup and accessories from Forever21. I admit, the judgement comes from the inability to accessorize or wear lipstick. The first and last time I wore red lipstick I was told I looked like a Thai Hooker....more
It creeps me out too! I just figured, hey what do I have to lose?!more

Kindle Book Release - FREE Amazon Download - "How Do I Love Thee:Food For Thought Before You Say I DO" By DeBorrah K. Ogans

Author DeBorrah K. Ogans announces the release of the Kindle Edition of  her premarital guide  How Do I Love Thee: Food For Thought Before You Say "I DO"....more