Q and A: Fiancés, Strip Clubs and Whores (I'm just repeating what she said.)

Sarah,   Okay, so I might sound like a nut, and that’s fine. Here we go…...more
Absolutely! What it all boils down to is exactly what you're saying...that it's not just about a ...more

I Should be Grateful

“I write about the power of trying because I want to be okay with failing. I write about generosity because I battle selfishness. I write about joy because I know sorrow. I write about faith because I almost lost mine, and I know what it is to be broken and in need of redemption. I write about gratitude because I am thankful – for all of it.” Kristin Armstrong...more

How to Have Happier Holidays!

Richard and I just indulged in our favorite December tradition—we watched our favorite Christmas movie (Scrooge! the musical starring Albert Finney) which kick-starts our holiday spirit every year. ...more

Better Intimacy, Better Sex

As a counselor, I get a lot of clients who are worried about intimacy and sex. Romance books are a lovely escape from reality, and can help reduce your stress from daily frustrations. And, you can even learn a few tricks to enhance your relationship. The danger comes in if you begin to believe in the fantasy, compare your real-life partner to a fictional character, and become dissatisfied and feel unfulfilled. One of the attractive things about romance heroes is that they do all the work,...more

Dear Dr. Romance: What is the right love to last a lifetime?

Dear Dr. Romance:I am writing this letter to you because I really want to know what is the right love to last a lifetime? I am frustrated right now. How couples especially married, last love into lifetime? I am in love with someone, but I don't know if that person feels the same way too. But in some way or in somehow, I know she feels in a small amount of love for me. How to love right? God is loving right, must we follow that?Dear Reader:...more

Distance love

"What? Are you in a long distance relationship?What do you have in your head for God's sake" ......more

I Choose Him Over Family This Holiday Season

The Boyfriend and I are six months in and the holidays are creeping up. He’s an LA implant so choosing where to spend the holidays would be simple if this were an ordinary situation, but it’s not. My dad is not a fan of this relationship so for the first time ever I have to choose; spend the holidays with my family or with the boyfriend?...more

Why Truth in Advertising Is Not A “Whatever, Dude”.

Advertising: “Techniques and practices used to bring products, services, opinions, or causes to public notice for the purpose of persuading the public to respond in a certain way.”Huh. ...more

Facing the Facts

Girls Don't Fart

Once upon a time, in a land far away, I dated a guy who believed that girls aren’t supposed to fart. He said it to me right after I let rip the first wallop of our fledgling 3 month relationship.  I’ll admit, it wasn’t a dainty toot.  My anal acoustics were akin to Maverick and Goose flying by the control tower.  It was a bold first fart.This guy was clearly not a good match for me as I possess a stomach whose main digestive function is to produce rectal turbulence....more
@CocoaFly JillPond11  I know!  He was and is a wanker!more