Mind reading

Mind reading Mind reading is a carnival attraction.  A 'don't try this at home' type of thing....more

Seventeen Again?

Oh my Word... It happened again!...more

Texting while dating

Texting while dating Emailing has become the number one means of communication, closely followed by texting  in business as well as in d...more

Why I'm Happy I Don't Have a Daughter

Since re-comitting myself to my blog I made a kind of promise to myself that I would write a post a minimum of every other day. I don't want to promise you or myself  even that I will produce one daily as it was that pressure which drove me to the point of sporadic posting which was frankly boring to read and keep track of....more

For Mature Audiences Only

Lovely senior wants to take you to dinner. Who, me? There must be some mistake. I keep getting these misdirected emails with the most ridiculous subject lines: Senior Romance, Senior Speed Dating, Senior Single Vacations, Senior Tours and Cruises. Is this someone's idea of a joke? Think again, Granny, they're meant for you alright, and it's the farthest thing possible from a joke. It's a product of the aging population - those baby boomers rearing their grey and balding heads again, and yes, I'm one of them like it or not....more

Really Feelin' the Love

When you feel loved, it makes the world look different. It makes you feel things that you’ve never felt before, see things that you’ve never seen before, hear things that you’ve never heard before. When you feel loved, it makes the people around you look different. It makes you see the beauty in individual people. It makes you appreciate the unique characteristics and traits of each person, makes you see the good in people versus the bad....more

I'm Better Than This

When you go out to the club, chances are you aren’t thinking about “peacocking” and “throwing ‘negs.’” But what if that guy chatting you up is? If you’ve never even heard of this phenomenon, read on, and be prepared to be disturbed....more

My Version of Perfection

I dreamt about our wedding last night and it was so vivid and clear. I could clearly see the white dress I would be wearing. I could clearly see my mom helping me into my gown. I could clearly see myself walking down the aisle. But I could also see the tears running down my face when I realized I had forgotten a lot of little things for the wedding. I could clearly see that the gown I was supposed to wear for my reception was too big. I could clearly see that half my guest list was not in attendance…...more

Mixed Emotions

My sunny days aren’t always sunny—there’s a cloud overhead.  My joyful days aren’t always joyous—there a sadness that’s felt. My loving days aren’t always loving—there is anger in my heart.  My easy days aren’t always easy—life makes them hard.  My beautiful days aren’t always beautiful—there is ugliness that’s real.  My healthy days aren’t always healthy—there’s a sickness I feel.  My stable days aren’t always stable—there’s turmoil within.  My perfect days aren’t always perfect—there are flaws that come in....more

The Language of Love

What is your language of love? How do you communicate love to your partner? My boyfriend and I are trying to figure out the answer to that question right now. I’ve always thought I liked to receive love through words of affirmation—I like to hear "I love you" and like to hear sweet things. However, because of the nature of our relationship, love is only being expressed through words and I’m now feeling as if I want to receive love in other ways as well. ...more