Fashion Rule for the (All) Ages

Fashion Rule for all ages: Just because it comes in your size doesn't mean you have to wear it. Allie

Out of Forehead Experience: The Dark Side of Botox

Ok, I admit it.  I’ve had Botox - once.  I had it done to the lines on my forehead.  The shots were basically painless, which is a good thing (but, we’re women, pain is irrelevant) And, the Botox did work in pretty much eliminating the lines.  Temporarily, of course.  The results lasted maybe 6 weeks.  But, here’s the kicker: I could not raise my eyebrows, at all, period.  It was like my forehead no longer belonged to me.  It wasn’t really numb to the touch, but I had absolutely no muscle control of the area.  It freaked me out!...more

Fashion Tip for the Over-40 Crowd

Fashion Rule: If you were around to wear it the first time it was in, you have no business wearing it now. Allie
lol this is great advice for those over 40 and single.  Do you think it applies to places to ...more

Does Absence Really Make the Heart Grow Fonder?

It is a foreign and unwelcome feeling to be separated from the one you love.  Not separated in terms of emotion and circumstance, but separated in terms of proximity. Emotionally our relationship is strong, but our feelings and emotions are forced to overcompensate for what may be lacking physically. ...more

Jackie or Marilyn?

This is an old post (Sept. 22, 2010) from my column on Sexandthe405 that seemed right at home here on BlogHer. Enjoy! ...more

The Super-Friend, a.k.a. Sexual Jedi

I spent a lovely evening with the inestimable DoctorRabbit tonight.  There was no sex to be had, but like my time with FutureHusband, I was supremely satisfied at the end....more

Love Lessons From ABC’s ‘The Bachelor’

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Single Celebrities Who Rock (and Rule)!

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Love Letter to My Future Husband

I thought on this day it would be fitting to share my love letter to my future husband……my daydream of us …...more

The Law of Attraction

It always fascinates me when I see a couple together who, on the outside don’t look like they would have anything in common, but clearly look like they are in love. Some factor attracted these two people to each other. Some force of nature that is unidentifiable drew this man and this woman together—it’s unexplainable (I’m sure they can’t even explain it), but the fact is that they are happy. ...more