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Putting the Spark Back Into Your Relationship

What’s the key to keeping the spark in a relationship? When the honeymoon phase is over, how do you ensure the passion remains?When relationships transform from leisure into work, a shift occurs within the dynamics of the couple’s interactions where they start to become complacent and bored. They are not turned on as easily as before—they fall into the “danger zone” called status quo....more

When is single not single?

When is single not single? When a potential date is still living with his/her ex for "financial reasons"? When the same person says s/he is "too busy" with work? What if this potential date keeps saying "it's not you," meaning, s/he is not avoiding getting together with ME, but just "can't": do we believe him/her? For how long? How many chances do we give him/her? No matter how interesting, attractive, appealing, or compatible this person may seem, unavailable is NOT single, IMHO, and I want to know when to give up.  ...more

Rebound women

It's been said that when your heart has been broken, the best way to heal is to get back out there and start dating again.  While this seems a good way to begin the mending process - taking your mind away from the hurt, feeling wanted again, regaining your pride - there's one important thing that you should keep in mind.  Regardless of how determined you are to move on, you're on the rebound. Read more http://www.sheshouldhaveit.com Rachael R. Lorenz She Should have It...more

Why Married Men Adore You (Yet You're Not Getting Dates)

I've had three clients this week tell me how they tend to be buddies with men and gets no dates. It goes something like this:1. She talks to a lot of men and they seem to like her; but none ask her out.2. While she doesn't connect with single men, the married and attached men adore her. In fact, they tell her they can't figure out why she hasn't met a fantastic man yet....more


My first lesbian experience was about 15 years ago with a co-worker from my job as a hospital switchboard operator. Tiffany was a really smart and funny ex-stripper from Southern Calif who asked me to join her for a girl's night out. She showed up at my apartment early while I still had hot rollers in my hair and was running around in my bra and panties under an open short robe....more

Reflections of You

It’s days like this that I want to be near you. It’s days like this that I want to be close to you, in your arms, holding you close. It’s days like this that I can hardly bear our current situation and wish we lived near each other. Days like this… Days like today—cold, rainy, dreary, quiet—are days that you want to cuddle up to the one you love; cuddled up, under a blank, the only sounds being the pitter patters of your heartbeats and of the rain hitting the ground....more

Men & there needs in relationships

Hello I am Daisy and this is my first blog, I decided this morning that maybe I needed some feedback on men and there relationships or better yet boys depending on what you consider men. Ages 18-24. I guess my question is just this: Do men get bored with relationships? It being either sex, maybe the fact that the couple is together 24/7. Do men need space?  ...more

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? Dates from Frog to my Prince Charming

  3/8/2011    Today I am going to blog about my first date with a guy I will refer to as, Sky Soldier, since he has the dreamiest blue/green eyes and is a soldier who just came back from fighting in Afganistan. He is the second guy I have been on a date with after joining the online dating website. Here's the details on before and after my date with him.   Perconceived Notions:...more

Two good dates with normal people already? Not a bad track record. Maybe there is something to ...more