Help US Understand Dating Better!

 WiseGirls and WiseMen, all over the world are giving us their take on dating!!! Some are already married, some still dating, and some are in a stable relationship! Would you help us?...more

The Following Days Con't

I leave the room and sit in the lobby for them to finish my paperwork. While I’m waiting, I send Jason a text saying, “I just wanted to let you know that I’m at Planned Parenthood. They confirm that I am pregnant and due in November.”He sends a text back saying, “I don’t even know what to say to you.”Stunned by this reply, I’m at a loss for how to respond. How does he not know what to say to me? Last I knew, it takes two for this result to happen....more

The Following Days

After Jason leaves, I immediately get ready for bed. In a fog like crying daze, I take a shower, brush my teeth and change into shorts and a t-shirt. As I lay in bed, my thoughts are anything but still. They are rapid, multi-directional, and never ending.What am I going to do? How will this affect my business? I’ve worked so hard on starting and growing it. Now what’s going to happen? I can’t believe Jason said that. Why did he react that way? ...more

Virtual Chemistry

    It's kind of amazing how disinterested I'd become in sex.  During the last year of increasingly inactive relationship, and it's devastating conclusion, I'd almost completely lost the urge.  After we broke up, however, sex was practically all I could t...more

The News Con't

He looks at it and says, "Well, you got what you wanted a baby and no guy."I reply, "Yeah, that’s every girl’s dream."He then says, "If it’s real that is.""What are you talking about?""You could have used Kool-aid on the stick."My mind is reeling in many different directions, but the idea that he would even think that wasn’t one of them.I reply, "I didn’t even know you could do that (which come to find out later, you can’t—and just goes to show you how much he knows)."...more

Turn Your Dating Life Around

Resident WiseGirl – Mandy Le-Fontaine, recently shared her 10 strong rules on dating. Check these out and let us know if you’ve had any success or used these tips in the past!! We would love to hear from you!Rule No 1: Always let him make the first move.Chuck out the girl power placard. Men are hunters so if you chase, you will loose. A bitVictorian? Yes, but you’ll thank me later.For Mandy's next 9 tips, continue reading>>...more

The Uncloseting Of A Sizequeen

    Are most women size queens?  Recently I polled an informal group of lady friends to ask a very big question; when it comes to choosing a man, how much does penis size really matter?  The results may surprise you.  Not one of the women I spoke to admitted they'd dismiss a man for being too small, but several claimed there was definitely such a thing as not small enough.  Several pantomimed frightened faces after the big reveal was bigger than expected.  "Where do you think you're putting that?!" cried one distressed damsel faced with more than she ...more

I Found Love Online and You Can Too

When deciding to find a date online, safety is first and foremost. There are a lot of whackos out there but on the flip side, there are a lot of good people that are serious about wanting to meet someone. Use your common sense at all times. Most on-line sites won't allow you to post contact information. You must go through their site to contact a person. Don't give out any personal information until you are sure you are ready to talk in person. ...more
@Robinette B I remember thinking how strange it was to think people were meeting over the ...more


       We've all heard the saying "If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything." That statement IS SO TRUE....more

Fun Fall Date Ideas

It's the most wonderful time of the year. The days are warm and sunny and the nights are cool and crisp. It's a great time to start something new, like a new project, a new book, or a new relationship.We've got some great ideas for you to get out and get dating with someone special. There's no reason why go out with someone new, we've got ideas for cheap dates too.  After you both have lots of fun, maybe then it'll be time to get frisky!1. Football game              ...more