Think Twice, Think Nice

Every girl should be so lucky to have a guy friend like Bones. You know, the type that reminds you that not all guys are emotionally-constipated jagoffs looking to score. I mean yes, my core group of guy friends (which includes Wolf and Taz) are generally pretty great, but they have their jerky tendencies. Bones though, for all his sarcastic wit, would be hard-pressed to even fake jerkiness....more

Dear Dr. Romance: How Do I Flirt to Grab a Guy's Attention?

 Dear Dr. Romance: I'd like to learn something flirty and funny that will grab a guys attention!? I am going bowling with my crush and a group of friends (I never talk to my crush so this is huge!) and I am trying to think of some cute flirty things to say! Any suggestions? Examples please :) -Like let's say I make a mistake and get a gutterball or fall or something what is something flirty and cute I can say? - Or lets say he is pretty good at bowling- whats a good cute comment?!...more

Good morning to you and your bull sh*t

This is how he greeted me today... and it made me laugh. He wears jeans and t-shirts, eats meat and potatoes and drives a pick up truck. He is super fast with numbers, can figure the bottom line in his head and has that dry sense of humor that almost sounds mean but makes me belly laugh. I am mostly veggies, read self help, wear a q-link and am so crazy hot for him that I joined a bowling team with him. I am the oldest, the responsible one, the protector. the warrior - and it's hard to be the girl in a relationship when you're a warrior. ...more

Freaks, Geeks and Douche Bags - Profile 003.

All names have been change to protect the innocentProfile 003.Nickname: Suicidal TendenciesDistinguishing feature: Very pretty blond hair...more

The M Word

You would think that with 100% Caribbean blood flowing through my veins like Meyer’s rum, I’d be better equipped to deal with this grossly sticky heat wave swamping NYC at the moment. You would, apparently be wrong. My current defense against heat stroke seems to be, “shut off brain, direct all blood flow to extremities, and please for the love of god find me a fan.” Hence, zero bloggage over the last couple days. My brain overheated and could barely handle its normal tasks, writing was out of the question....more

Stay away from other SOCIAL NETWORKS besides facebook.

Now ask yourself, is it really worth the effort and electricity to be online dating? Especially when you have no idea who YOU are really speaking too....more

Parisian Picnic Date Idea – Ooh la la

Paris, France – the most romantic city in the world. Known for it’s culture, cuisine, history and wine, Paris also has gorgeous gardens located throughout the city. Whether its the Jardin du Luxembourg, the Tuileries, or Champ de Mars overlooking the Eiffel Tower, amid the bustling city lie these lush green spaces that are visited by tourists and Parisians alike. Perfect for strolling, people watching or a quiet picnic, this week’s date idea is inspired by the Paris gardens and the people who frequent them....more

My Caveman

In august of 2010 I was back in the bay area.Rebel had died in April and I couldn't stand the loneliness of my little Dallas apartment.Rebel got sick on friday, he died the next friday and the following friday I was driving back to San Jose.I stayed in my sister's spare bedroom/office and asked god every day what her will for me was.I felt abandoned and alone even though I was under the wing of my sister and back in a community that knew and loved me.My bargain with god was that I would ride out the summer and then watch for gods prompting....more

How old is too old?

               Ok,just to let ya know I'm 23.So keep that in mind I guess.Right now,there are 2 guys I keep going back and forth over.One is my age(23) and the other is 49.Although,when you first seen you'd of thought early 30's.The guy my age I have been pursuing for 2 years now.I don't know if I wanna let it go.I do and I don't.He has also opened up some old paths and started new ones.The guy thats 49,I've only known him for a few weeks.We both have the same views and thoughts on things,I'm concerned about being treated like a child and him shooting...more
If their is one golden nugget of advice that I could give you it is you are young and have the ...more

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