Talk to me

A man that I love recently opined over breakfast that it is better to use fewer words than to provide detailed explanations, because the meaning of words is already clear.  As if each of us was not living in our own little world with our own interpretations of what is happening in the world around us...more

If You Want a Love You've Never Had, You Have to do Something You've Never Done.

“The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting different results.”  Albert EinsteinMy first marriage was pretty safe and secure. He was basically a good guy and I knew he would never deliberately hurt me. But there was very little passion and although we had love for one another, we were never lovers. You know what I’m saying…...more

An Experiment With My Insanity – Harley Store

It’s Friday, Friday, got to get down on Friday, Friday… Man, why didn’t that Rebecca Black girl get a record deal? That was some GREAT music!!!! Yes, ok, I’m Skinny and Deaf today, she sucks.With absolutely no plan in hand, I hopped on my trusty scooter for a quick ride. It’s a bit chilly, so I’ll just pop into the local motorcycle supply store and get myself some new gloves. You may think I’d be embarrassed to pull into a Harley Store on my scooter, but I’m tough, I’m cool, I’m looking like an idiot.(My favorite)Convo:...more

His Name was Sloan Part 2 ( Love gone wrong series)

Dr. Sloan Rothamn:I want her. All I do is think of Finley. I could smell her from a distance. So intoxicating and all that entails. I want to touch her and lover her like she deserves. She has been hurt. How do I break those walls down? Damn, I am her professor, she is my student. I am in control and I must stay in control. This woman! Whatever shall I do with her? Alison...more

Dr. Romance on Anticipating the New Year

Dr. Romance wishes you a Happy New Year!...more

Give Yourself a Gift

Want to give yourself a holiday gift that will last the rest of your life? Try giving yourself the gift of happiness. Research shows that happiness and satisfaction depend more on the inner person than on external circumstances. The secret to living a happy life is to get in charge of your life and what you are doing. Then you can build the life you want. As children, we are strongly influenced by the opinions of others, and what you learn in early childhood can run your life until you understand it and take control of your own ideas and decisions. ...more

5 Reasons Why It's Better to Talk than Text

After a few recent stories from my awesome girls, I am finally putting fingers to keyboard and giving you the top 5 reasons why talk is almost always better than text. By text I mean SMS, Facebook message or any kind of chat function on an app (yes like Tinder). What the #$% does that mean? Texting is a woefully inadequate method of communication....more

Do You Admire Your Partner?

When I was 9 years old I had a traumatic even in my life. I was young and it happened in the middle of the night while I was half asleep, so no one believed my recollection of the event. My family and the police didn’t hear me, and I’ve been trying to get people to listen ever since.I built this pattern of wanting to be heard and respected. Because of that respect was always a part of my vocabulary when it came time to describe an element I wanted in my relationship. Who doesn’t want to be respected by their partner?...more

Why I Wanted To Smack Him. HARD.

Now we come to the guy who made me realize that compromising to just go out on a date rather than be alone was just fucking whack. Also, that going much younger wasn’t always going to work out in my favour and finally finally, if the date is at WHOLE FOODS, maybe going to the washroom and not coming back should have occurred to me. Either that or just saying no in the first place. Oh beautiful, clever, devilish hindsight....more

Drop Kicks Loneliness In The Head

Loneliness lays crying on the floor. Loneliness gets a couple good swift kicks to the kidneys.Loneliness loses.Why am I imagining SpongeBob SquarePants?K, I’m cheered up now, thanks.