Is Your Independence Keeping You Single?

Ladies, we can do everything all on our own, but what if the very thing that makes you independent is also the thing that’s keeping you single?A while back, I caught a flat on the way to a lunch date. Always one for punctuality, I decided to drive to the date anyway, which was really close by, and deal with the flat afterwards.“I’m sorry I was late, I had a flat on the way here,” I explained to my date....more

When I Wasn’t Myself And Had My First Fun Date. Finally!

My first real, actually pleasurable date was on Canada Day/ July 1st. I’ll never forget it because of that and also because it was low fat, cruelty free and non work related in every way with fireworks thrown in for good measure. I fucking LOVE fireworks.#Boom....more
TY!  It's not easy to become alternate universe you so just be gentle with yourself if it ...more

Online Dating 101

There’s a conversation topic that keeps coming up lately no matter where I am or who I’m with.  I’ve had it with friends, I’ve had it with family, and I’ve had it A LOT with coworkers; especially the youngins who know WAY more about this topic than I do.So what is this topic I can’t seem to escape from, you ask?Online. Dating....more

30 Valentine's Day Love Messages

Whether you're in a serious relationship or have been married for a few years, it's important to remember that everyone likes to be reminded how important they are to you.  With Valentine's Day just a short week away, take a few moments to let the one you love know exactly how you feel....more
Thank you so much Blog Her for featuring my post.  It's such a joy being part of this awesome ...more

She's a Good Girl...

"I'm kind of a good girl - and I'm not. I'm a good girl because I really believe in love, integrity, and respect. I'm a bad girl because I like to tease. I know that I have sex appeal in my deck of cards. But I like to get people thinking. That's what the stories in my music do."...more

Why Dating at 30 Scares Me

This is how I feel sometimes!It is no secret that I'm single. I think I mention the fact that I'm not married or in a relationship too often, if you ask me....more
I just finished interviewing women who were older and new to the dating world and their stories ...more

Do Opposites REALLY Attract? Yes! But do they LAST?

“Birds of a feather flock together.” Maybe that just means you should marry someone who also owns a parakeet. In honor of February and Valentines Day, I’m trying to find out if there’s any truth to that age old theory that opposites not only attract; they make for long sustaining unions?...more

Who Am I? A Look at the Victims of Domestic Violence

I am your mother, your daughter, your sister, your co-worker, your neighbor and your friend. I am your nurse, your hair stylist, your chiropractor and your son’s piano teacher. I am the lady in line next to you at the grocery store. I am the woman sitting beside you Sunday morning at church. And I am a victim of domestic violence....more
Sadly, this continues to be a silent crime, that remains hidden until a celebrity or ...more

How to Tell if a Girl is a Feminist

  This is, apparently, a hugely asked question on the Internet. Well, never fear you poor terrified boys, I will help you spot every one of those damned feminists a mile away! ...more