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Is There a Gender Issue with Facebook Places?

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I'll do anything for BlogHer; even try out Facebook Places. I resisted Foursquare and Gowalla and other similar services, but when BlogHer asked me to report on Facebook Places, I couldn't say no.

First, I'll explain how to use it. Then I'll describe how reactions to it have split along gender lines. Finally, I'll tell you how to deal with privacy settings for this new Facebook service.

How to Use Facebook Places

Start with the Facebook app on your GPS enabled smart phone. You'll see the new Places icon in the Facebook options.

Facebook Places

When you choose Places, it may ask to use your location. It may ask for a zip code. Eventually, it offers you a list of nearby places based on your current location. You select the one where you are. You can add a comment about the place if you want.

Facebook places now in my profile

The first place I shared was Sandia Chile Grill. (They make a great burrito there, but I didn't mention it.) It immediately appeared in my list of Places on my smart phone. It also appeared on my Wall in the browser-based Facebook application. Only my friends could see it because of previous privacy settings I'd made on Facebook.

In addition to my friends being able to see where I was, my friends could tag me to say that I was in the same place they were. Even if I didn't know they were doing it.

You need to do more than depend on your previous privacy settings for Places, but we'll get to that in a minute.

If you need more details about how to use Places, check out A Field Guide to Using Facebook Places by Jolie O'Dell or Facebook Places Tells Friends Where You Are - Here's How it Works by Josh Kirschner.

Reactions Split Along Gender Lines

Only a few hours after Places was announced, it became clear that men and women felt differently about it. Men were enthusiastic about how great Places was. The post I mentioned by Josh Kirschner is an example, and see Jason Kincaid's first report on Places at TechCrunch, too. He complains that it's confusing, but doesn't suggest you might not want to use it at all. (Kincaid's post has been updated a couple of times with some clarifications that are important about how Places works.)

Women, on the other hand, were posting articles such as Facebook Places: What it is, how you can opt out and Does the internet really need me to check in?, both by Whitney Drake. Facebook Places Outrage by MamaPop, Facebook Places = pleaserobme.com by written inc., The Deal with Facebook Places & Privacy in English by Liz Gannes and How to Almost Sabotage a Dinner Party with Facebook Places at Advertising Age are other negative reactions from women.

Apart from the guys who saw something new and cool and gals who worried about privacy and safety, the third reaction I saw was to the business potential for small business owners that comes with Places. Use Facebook Places to Boost Business and Lift Sales at Entrepreneur.com and Earn Travel Rewards for Checking into Facebook Places by Jennifer Van Grove are examples of that reaction.

How to Deal with Privacy in Places

If you want to use Places, you need to get into your Facebook privacy settings and make some decisions about options that weren't there before.

You'll see a Places I Check Into in the menu. Mine was set by default to friends only because of some previous privacy settings I'd chosen. But that's not enough if you really want to be careful.

Facebook Privacy Settings 1

Make sure you have selected Custom in the menu on the left, then click the Customize Settings link.

Start with the "Things I Share" choices. Here you see the option to pick who can see the Places you've checked into, and the option that lets anyone else who is in the same place see that you are there.

Facebook Privacy Settings 2

If you don't want people who are in the same location as you to know you are there, deselect the "People Here Now" option.

Then move

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Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

to a place when you aren't really there could definitely be a problem.

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

vomviersen 5 pts

I use Foursquare very sporadically (the shiny new app thing wore off very quickly for me) and usually just to say I'm at dog training or a dog show.

The main thing that bothered me about Facebook Places is the ability for others to check you into a place. That definitely crosses a line for me.

As for the gender split, a couple of the Places articles I read mentioned the scenario of someone checking you in at a strip club when you told your SO you were working late, and in fact, were working late. If that were to actually happen to a few guys, I wonder if the opinion gender split will change?

vomviersen :: Kathi Wilson
http://rottweilers.brilliant-disguise.net/
Chicago, IL

Skye 5 pts

It would be great at SXSW or BlogHer, but when I'm at the library? No thanks. If anyone knows me and wants to find out where I am, they can call me.

Skye Kilaen

Flooded Lizard Kingdom ( http://www.lizardkingdom.org ) | Heroine Content ( http://www.heroinecontent.net )

Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

I understand what you are talking about. The only time I can see a value in checking in to Places as a public event is at a conference where I'm hoping to connect with people who are hard to find in a big crowd of attendees. As a part of daily life, no way.

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

niseag03 5 pts

I had a guy who had been wanting to meet me find me at a concert because I had RSVPd to the event on Facebook. Luckily he was harmless and I was with my husband, but it did seriously freak me out!

I fought joining Foursquare for awhile now, but I joined it a couple weeks ago. I use it VERY sparingly, but its been fun to see how long I spend at places, etc. I keep my privacy set as high as possible, and I also keep my friend's list very small. I certainly don't plan to broadcast my use of it. Especially not after the event I talked about in the first paragraph!!

I don't know if I will use Places. I've looked at it a few times on my phone, but I've not used it. I might consider it at some point. But for now, I plan to keep my broadcasting of my location to a minimum.

Denise
Musician's Widow ( http://www.musicianswidow.com )

Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

you are both lining up on the feminine side of the gender divide here – uncomfortable with letting people know where you are located.

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

Melissa Ford 5 pts

Frankly, things such as Foursquare and Facebook Places make me really uncomfortable. I understand their usefulness for college kids, but I don't necessarily want people to find me or know where I am right now when I'm out trying to run errands.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

vlb 5 pts

It's partly the privacy issue and partly that I just don't see the necessity of geotagging my every move. But privacy is a big thing, yes. My "location" is "SF Bay Area, CA". Small enough to know it's currently hot outside; large enough that you'd have a hard time finding my house.

Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

or are you simply not interested in sharing your location for some other reason?

Virginia DeBolt
Web Teacher ( http://www.webteacher.ws/ ) | First 50 Words ( http://first50.wordpress.com )

JennaHatfield 9 pts

I haven't used it yet. I don't know if I will.

Contributing Editor Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )) blogs at Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ). She is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.