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I'm in my late 20's and I live in a small city in Eastern Canada.  I'm back working at a call center after a 2 year hiatus and I'm ready to move on to...
 
 
 
 

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Things I've learned as the DJ's girlfriend

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As I've mentioned previously my boyfriend is a DJ and has just been confirmed as the opening act of a 3 day music festival going on in the city this summer (he's opening for Scratch Bastid a well known Canadian DJ and Team Canada another awesome group as well as pop artist which I'm actually not sure who it is at this time).  This is by far the most exciting move in his career and it got me thinking about my role as the DJ's girlfriend, sometimes referred to as the DJ's widow because you spend time in concerts and in clubs without your partner as they are the source of entertainment.  I have learned how to make one drink last 3 hours when I don't have a lot of spare cash but feel obligated to purchase at least one while I wait.  I have had to muster up the energy to head over to an afer party because he has to make an appearance and had to maintain that energy until 6 or 7 in the morning (this has become somewhat easier working until 1am myself)  I have taken photos in the club, worked coat check, handed out promo flyers, watched every outlet in a club because I needed something to do and I can't always rely on friends to be around.  I have also lugged equipment countless amounts of time, I know to be careful with it, I alway did but my boyfriend never fails to remind me, its his livelyhood after all.  I've watched tons of girls hang off my partner or have been told by other folks about it, DJ's require trusting partners, its not for the weak.  I have also had people buy me shots and other drinks, and I've had people tell me how lucky I am to have him, I am constantly told how talented he is and have been told by some folks that they only come out when he's playing.  But I love him and its exciting to see his career start to take off, I just hope he'll continue to let me tag along on the journey.  cheers.

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Stellar 5 pts

I myself experience the same things down to a T as the DJ's girlfriend. But I have a couple questions, do you go to almost every gig of his or go when he invites you? The club and partying scene isn't my idea of ideal fun and the only reason why I go is to support him. He knows this and understands. But when I'm at home alone and he comes back till 4 am I get lonely and can't help but wonder if we end up getting married and have children how well am able to separate the personal and work world...or is inevitable that one or the will be affected?

laurelleaf 5 pts

Stellar Hey there! wow, I wrote this almost three years ago, but I'm still with my DJ boyfriend (now fiance), so I can still address this. He really likes my moral support so I am there at almost all of his gigs. I'm not really big on clubs but I love to dance, I've learned to make it work for me. I know the feeling of waiting til 4 or 5 or 6 sometimes for him to come home for a gig, it can get lonely! Hmmmm we're not really planning on having kids and if we change our minds it will be time to re-evaluate his current career path. I do think it can work, he might not be home in the evenings but he'd be there during the day, not something you can say about a lot of fathers out there. I guess you just have to make the best of what you have.