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Tips For Getting Enough Sleep: When Was the Last Time You Had a Good Night's Sleep?

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Are you one of the millions of Americans not getting enough sleep?  When was the last time you had a good night's sleep?  Can you even remember?


Woman asleep on couch with book

I can remember when I stopped getting enough sleep.  It was in my early twenties, when I started working night-shift as a nurse.  I didn't do it for too long (off and on for a few years), but once my body learned it could stay up all night, things would never be the same.  That was well over twenty years ago.  Today, I can be exhausted all day long (and I usually am), but once ten o'clock rolls around my body seems to get a second wind.  And since getting to bed by 10pm is just about impossible, I find myself seeing 11pm, midnight, 1am, and if I'm lucky by 2am I'm able to fall asleep.  Most nights I'm not so lucky and I manage to hit the hay around 3:30am.

[fyi...It's 3:05am right now]

We all know that it's important to get enough sleep.  But do you know why?

Too little sleep can cause:

  • Memory problems.
  • Anxiety, stress, and depression.
  • A weakening of the immune system.
  • An increase in the perception of pain.
  • Driving impairment.
  • Weight gain or loss.

Enough is enough.  I'm committed to turning my viscous cycle of sleep deprivation around by the end of the summer.  Here are a few of the ways I plan on trying to do that...

1.  I'm going to try to get up at the same time each morning.

2.  Before I do anything else, I'm going to swim laps in the pool.

3.  I'm going to make a to-do-list, to help prioritize my waking hours.

4.  I'm going to get my writing (and other work) done before 7pm.

5.  I'm going to resist the urge to nap during the day (even for a short time).

6.  I'm not going to eat too close to bedtime.

7.  I'm going to turn off the t.v. (and the computer) at least an hour before I plan to go to bed and read a book.

8.  I'm going to make an effort to get to bed before midnight.

Other tips for reducing sleep deprivation...

  • Try not to drink beverages with caffeine within six hours of your bedtime (that includes soda).
  • Some foods may help promote sleep – milk, tuna, pumpkin, artichokes, avocados, almonds, eggs, peaches, walnuts, apricots, oats, asparagus, potatoes, and bananas.
  • Avoid alcohol before bedtime. It may initially help you fall asleep, but it also can cause disturbances in your sleep. Having an alcohol drink before bedtime may make it more likely that you will wake up during the night.
  • Don’t go to bed hungry…But also avoid heavy meals before bedtime.
  • Exercise is great but not too late in the day. Avoid exercising closer than 5 or 6 hours before bedtime.
  • If taking a nap, take it before 3pm and keep naps to under an hour.
  • Take a hot bath before bed.  The drop in body temperature after the bath may help you feel sleepy, and relaxed.
  • Have a good sleeping environment. Get rid of anything that might distract you from sleep, such as noises, bright lights, an uncomfortable bed, or a TV or computer in the bedroom.
  • Keeping the temperature in your bedroom on the cool side can help you sleep better.
  • If you can't sleep, don't stay in bed. After staying in bed for more than 20 minutes, get up and do something relaxing until you feel sleepy.  The anxiety of not being able to sleep can actually make it harder to fall asleep.
  • Don't be afraid to see a doctor if you continue to have trouble sleeping.

More bloggers on the topic of Sleep:

From Darryle Pollack at the Choose You Blog - Getting Enough Sleep...

We do it from the day we’re born until the day we die; and still it’s confounding. At times, sleep happens when you want it least; then it refuses to happen when you want it most. No wonder it’s the basis of dreams—-and desperation.

From Zen Family Habits - 6 Tips For Surviving Sleep Deprivation...

We’ve all heard that getting enough sleep is

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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Hi Vibi. While not a cure for sleep deprivation, it (hanky panky) certainly can be a big help in some cases. Thanks for your comment.
:-)

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Vibi 5 pts

ok, some body had to say it - there's nothing like a bit of hanky panky before trying to fall asleep. It relaxes the whole body, whether you do it solo or with your partner, and assures a soothing sleep. Every time!

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Thanks for the link...I'll check it out.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Thanks for commenting Melissa. You really should try to make getting enough sleep one of your healthy living priorities.
:-)

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
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Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Thanks for sharing your story. I totally know what you mean...I have CFS. People think that if you're "chronically fatigued" sleeping shouldn't be a problem...but I have times when I am totally exhausted and still unable to get a good night's sleep. And of course, not sleeping only exacerbates any chronic medical problems we have...It's a vicious cycle.

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CrystalsCozyKitchen 5 pts

A while ago I wrote a post on Delayed Sleep Phase Disorder/Syndrome - a sleep disorder that is not very well known but has a HUGE impact on the lives of those that have it. Basically your body wants to sleep at the 'wrong' time. If you are having trouble sleeping at night, trouble going to sleep you may want to read about this sleep disorder.
http://crystalscozykitchen.blogspot.com/2010/04/fo... ( http://crystalscozykitchen.blogspot.com/2010/04/fo... )

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

I'm absolutely not getting enough sleep and I'm usually exhausted.

I take so much time setting boundaries for myself with fitness--making sure I'm eating well and exercising and drinking water. Why don't I make the same goals with sleep?

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

JChandler 5 pts

Since the onset of Fibromyalgia I have lived without a good night sleep. Going on well over twenty years the body copes as it can. I have tried so many suggestions but the nature of the condition and my refusal to self medicate means I have learned to live without the zzzz's.

There is no doubt that it has changed the way I work. Most people would have no clue about the symptoms of exhaustion that I experience except for my loved ones. Some days after counseling and facilitating all day I come home barely able to hold my head up from my plate. I can't formulate the thoughts on how to bring the fork to my mouth.

Sleep is something I miss greatly but I have adopted ways to cope and I have a good sense of humor about it. Sometimes I share some of my funny sleep deprived moments and we get a chuckle.

I have moved toward acceptance, being thankful for extra hours of rest and empathy for those that suffer with sleepless nights.

Thanks for opening up the conversation on sleep.

Rusty Hoe 5 pts

probably the same dweeb who did the study that showed you gain more weight the less sleep you have. Like we needed anything else to worry about!

Michelle Roger writes for Living With Bob (Dysautonomia) ( http://bobisdysautonomia.blogspot.com/ )

DeanaBirks 5 pts

Someone posted recently on Twitter linking to an article about how getting too *much* sleep can be deadly. I don't know who out there is getting too much sleep, but I guarantee it is not mothers.

I used to sleep 7 hrs at night and take a 1 hr nap. That worked my whole life...until I had kids. Now I sleep 5 or 6 hours at night and no nap unless I'm really lucky. One of my kids has not been able to go to sleep at a decent time since the day he was born and the other has to be up at the crack of pre-dawn.

Deana Birks
Eat. Drink. Read. Blog. ( http://www.deanabirks.com )

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Hi Michelle. Thanks for the tips. I didn't know about getting out in the sun for 10 mins...But I am planning on going outside and swimming in the morning, so maybe I will kill two birds with one stone.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

I'm hoping to get my writing done before 7pm, but I have similar scheduling issues. I often don't start writing until well into the night.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
Also at Catherine-Morgan.com ( http://catherine-morgan.com/ )

Rusty Hoe 5 pts

I used to teach sleep hygiene. Most people are unaware that preparation for sleep begins as soon as you get up in the morning. The simple act of getting up and going outside into the sun for 10 mins resets your body clock. Half the problems we have now stem from the fact that the traditional triggers for sleep (eg light or the lack of it) are now missing from our day. Sleeping in on your weekends also messes badly with your sleep cycle and we need to try and get up and go to bed at the same time each day (often easier said than done). It's all about establishing a routine so your body learns the cues for sleep.

One of the hardest things is to get people to accept that you can't fix your insomnia overnight (pardon the pun). For many it can take weeks to re-establish the sleep cycles, you have to make a conscious decision to stick with a sleep hygiene program if you want it to work.

Michelle Roger writes for Living With Bob (Dysautonomia) ( http://bobisdysautonomia.blogspot.com/ )

JennaHatfield 10 pts

I don't get to my writing until 7pm some days due to the kids and other work schedules.

I suck at sleeping as of late. I've GOT to fix it!

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.

Denise 9 pts moderator

And I wonder if that is the beginning of explaining my sleep problem. I only seem to sleep in 90 minute increments. 90 minutes, then wake up - toss and turn - fall asleep for another 90 minutes - rinse and repeat.

~Denise
BlogHer Community Manager
Life. Flow. Fluctuate.

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Interesting. Thanks.
:-)

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IsleDance 5 pts

So important, sleep.

It's key to sleep in 1.5hr increments - the REM cycle. Sleep for 1.5 hours, 3 hours, 4.5 hours, 6 hours or 7.5 hours. With 7.5 hours recently being announced as the ideal (not 8...because that messes up the natural REM cycle).

One Friday night, I loaded up my life and headed out... ( http://isledance.blogspot.com )

Catherine Morgan 5 pts

Night-shift is tough, I know many people who have been doing it for years and years...but I don't know how they do it.

Contributing Editor Catherine Morgan
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midnightbliss 5 pts

i've been working in night shift for almost 3 years now and since then, my sleeping patterns have been irregular. though i don't get enough sleep during working days, i try to get enough sleep during my 2-day off.